Relationship, wait or go?

[Lalobi]

Hello my fellow ichingers! I've come here for wisdom, advice and guidance. I'm a novice Ichinger, been doing it for many years, and I have come to an important situation where I myself need help to understand what is going on.I met somebody online, and we have hit off on an extremely good note. I can't emphasize that more than enough. We haven't met face to face yet. My only concern is, she is 2 years younger than me at the age of 32. And I know from experience that at a certain age, their biological ovaries are ticking which causes concern for me. And she has dropped hints that she is looking forward to having children. Sooner or later, she hasn't said. However I know it's that "time of age". Because had we met many years earlier, I wouldn't have a problem with it now. Today, I would've taken more of our time as a duo before we even come to such a point. So, I just want to run some numbers and see how things are developing before I commit to anything serious.What is her position in our relationship59.4 > 6Tell me something about X61.4 10What is the image of our relatinship8.1.2.4.5 54What could she intend to do with me in our relationship32.3 4059.4 One asks the most able to call when the preparation will be finished.Is she choosing around? Playing roulette? Seeing where the best chips land?61.4One can rise, provided that they abandon their old habitsIs Iching referring to me? I can't understand this. Or she is waiting for a significant sign from me to attach herself more on to me?32.3 40I've seen this one before. Doesn't look promising. Neither loyal. Or maybe I can't fit this in our context?I left out 8.1.2.4.5 for the simple reason because I am not qualified enough to understand these lines together. However with 8 and 54, I can feel something is up as they can signify some kind of union. Hence why I am here looking for help. Funny when we do Iching for others, I can understand the lines, but if it's for ourselfs, I have a harder time understanding them :')I appreciate your help and feedback. Thank you and have a nice day ! PS. Is it me? Or has the text format been mashed up? I can't put any paragraphs x(

 

[diamanda]

Hello,

Could you please clarify exactly what your concern is:

a) that she will want commitment ("she has dropped hints that she is looking forward to having children") or

b) that she will not want commitment ("she is waiting for a significant sign from me to attach herself more on to me? ... Doesn't look promising. Neither loyal.")

 

[Lalobi]

No concern, just a clarity of the situation. Putting things into perspective, analyzing the situation Just painting a picture of what and who she could be and what she could exactly want

 

[diamanda]

You did say "My only concern is", so there definitely was at least 1 concern when you started the thread, and you also mentioned a few more later on. But ok, if you now have no concerns anymore, then that sounds great.

 

[Lalobi]

Thank you! I look forward to anymore feedback if you could help me put the lines in perspective

 

[Lalobi]

I am confused about 61.4! (Tell me something about X 61.4 10)On one link it says: "they are saying 61.4 may be reflecting something in you that you need to leave behind, such as an idea or impression about R. Maybe you think she has moved on? Maybe you are worried she isn't into you?"And on another link it says: "Hex 61.4 means that although you treat people with all sincerity, some people still run away from you or even fight against you."I can't wrap my head around this, and/or if Iching is talking to me, or genuinely talking about the "something about x"Am I the one that has to look at this from a different perspective? Or does she have to "drop something"? She does come on to me a lot and kindly. :/

 

[pooja123]

first of all i ching is not a fortune tellin glass balll. it is a biorhythm technique that shows the querent's or a person's min. you cast too many hexs and too general of a question for each hexs. i assume Hex 59.4 >6 is the first cast. and the time cast was September 8th 9 am.

Warning this reading could be inaccurate seeing that you cast too many hexes and that you used your thoughts too much where it caused Yi to come out with hexs that tells more about your mind rather than her's.

time of reading shows both your line (5) and her feelings(2) line are empty! (why am i not surprised)

changing line 4 child line with a wife element hiding, turns into sibling line. under wen wang gua it means loneliness. no love relationship. line 3 has a husband hiding behind a rival or sibling. Also tells me no love potential.

result: this reading could be heavily influence by your emotions. please cast just one hex with one clear question without emotional attachments or heavy thoughts.

 

[Freedda]

I too am a bit unclear what your underlying question and concern is. It seems that you have one (or more), since you've posed about a half dozen queries about this (as yet non-existent outside of cyberspace) relationship.

You said:

"We haven't met face to face yet ... " and then you say:​

"So, I just want to run some numbers and see how things are developing before I commit to anything serious."​

I'd suggest that maybe instead of 'running numbers' to find out what's happening that you might actually meet this person to see what's up. I have a strong suspicion that the Yi would recommend the same.