Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
My psychotherapist is retiring in August, 2009, after working with me for 15 years - psychodynamic/support therapy.My question was how do I optimize my chances of having regular contact with him after he retires? (ie. either in terms of therapy or support or friendship.I cast coins and got hexagram 64. Changing line at top., making it change into Hexagram 40.
Can someone help me to interpret the reading please?
Also, I think I may need to do a new reading as I have had e mail contact wth him today, it kind of got a bit rocky, but now I am calm again...
Hi Bamboo,
Just been reading through your post again...and still struggling with situation described before. Just wanted to respond to some points you made. One is that no I don't see myself cured. I think people believe BPD people are 'cured' because they tend to suffer more in silence, but the loneliness continues, and the emotions get blunted through some kind of adaptation process. So although I do not cause others so much trouble, it remains trouble within me,a nd I struggle still. My therapist's work with me was more 'supportive' and he was like a father to me. This is what makes it so much harder. We discussed personal things - his life and mine, he gave advice, made practical suggestions about how do deal with actual events, gave advice regarding physical health etc etc. The I Ching is a treasure, that is certain, and I am endeavouring to follow its advice, but I remain in a lot of turmoil about my therapist's retirement, and what feels like a massive trauma at the moment.
Hi Bamboo,
Just been reading through your post again...and still struggling with situation described before. Just wanted to respond to some points you made. One is that no I don't see myself cured. I think people believe BPD people are 'cured' because they tend to suffer more in silence, but the loneliness continues, and the emotions get blunted through some kind of adaptation process. So although I do not cause others so much trouble, it remains trouble within me,a nd I struggle still. My therapist's work with me was more 'supportive' and he was like a father to me. This is what makes it so much harder. We discussed personal things - his life and mine, he gave advice, made practical suggestions about how do deal with actual events, gave advice regarding physical health etc etc. The I Ching is a treasure, that is certain, and I am endeavouring to follow its advice, but I remain in a lot of turmoil about my therapist's retirement, and what feels like a massive trauma at the moment.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).