second date possibility? 34.2,3 to 51

[openheartsf]

Hi all-

the backstory to this reading is that i had an internet date with "J". I felt like we clicked but i had to end the date on the early side. i thanked him and said i had a great time.

then he sent me an email the next day apologizing for 'scaring me off' and he wanted to know why. i wrote back that he didn't and that I had a great time! but i have not heard back from him. so i asked the yi if i would get a second chance with this guy. what do you think?

will i get another chance w/J?

34.2,3 to 51

hex 34 – The Horns – Power – Thunder in the Sky
great vigour, power, strength - energy and determination

The goat digs in his heels and charges with great force at the imminent hedge. The horns is a time to exercise our will through a forceful and dramatic display. We shall put our head down and charge without doubt toward the stated goal.

2nd – Lowering the Horns – Charging towards our goal with confidence will bring success. The wise man knows that few are able to withstand the great power of the horns.

3rd – Refraining the Horns – Oh how he wants to charge forth, but he notices a barb entangled in the hedge. Some enemy has placed it there to trick us! To persist as planned would mean getting stuck in the hedge. Better to holster the horns and use delicate skill and cunning to remove the barb.


hex 51
51 – The Alarm – Shock – Endless Thunder

The alarm sounds with a terrible and frightening shock, lifting people from their seats and sending them running for miles around.Realistically, the alarm should not be a time for fright, but rather a wake up call.

 

[icastes]

The problem here is pressing too hard. Take a step back and treat J well, with great attention and you have a chance. The 51 shock means that you will have your ups and downs, but you can succeed. I see that you have a good chance with this J.

 

[openheartsf]

icastes - thanks!

I wonder what it is that is being pressed too hard? And after several days of no reply to my email I am really wondering what the purpose of his message was anyway?

So I had to ask the Yi - what was the purpose of J's message to me?

15.4 to 62

Hex 15 Modesty - Integrity

LiSe's interpretation of 15 is "give and take"
Giving him his honor, respecting his views, giving him the room to express himself as well.

and so it does not seem that the intent was to offend me. For a minute I thought it was a passive aggressive way of him giving me the 'bird' LOL. or a way to manipulate me in to saying how wonderful, great and handsome he was and to beg him to call me again.

moving on to hex 62

The impression one makes on others is also irreversible, so pay attention to behavior and aura.
When misfortune hits, then meet it with respect.

IDK exactly how to interpret this...I feel like it's saying I did not make a good first impression? anyone want to take a stab at it? thanks!