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tacap

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As in my previous thread me and my husband separated and we have not been together for last two months. He came and asked me one day that we could stay together for one more year till our child was a little older and then divorce . I told him that since he hated me I could not do that.
Three days after that he again asked but this time he said that he wanted our marriage be given a last try..and I told him he needed to change and suggested counselling and he agreed. After that he comes home few days, plays with the child , talks with me generally, doesnt do any housework as if he is a house guest, which is irritating. I am worried if he is manipulating for one more year or if he really wants our marrige to work

today I asked
"how should I behave and act with him for my best and Happiness" I got 56.3.5 changing to 12
"what is his real intention towards me " I got 59 unchanging

When I had agreed I had asked the question on october 26
"Pl advise on my decision on agreeing on counsellling" I got 27.1.3.4 changing to 56

Please help with your insights
 

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He hated you for ages, he acted like a king, he left and now he is trying to worm his way back into the house. Has he really changed in the past few months, very, very unlikely.

You already are seeing the same old signs, not helping, expecting you to do everything, you will learn soon enough that this is the same arrogant guy you used to know, nothing will have changed.
There is some reason he has crawled back, you need to find out what it is. Also, what happened to his oriental girlfriend I wonder?
 

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Thanks Willowfox... I am also confused. Maybe he really wants to change ot just want to stay home with the comforts now that the winter in here..and with the holidays there is a lot of socializing and he would not want to miss on that.

I just asked " what is the real reason of his trying to come back" I got 8.3 changing to 39
The girl in question..i did some finding myself and atleast at present he is not meeting anyone like that. But I will eventually find out but he does not know that I know. maybe there was nothing and they just met at an event. but if he cheated there is no coming back. I had asked on October 26.
"what is his relationship with that girl"
I got 12.3 to 33

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8.3 changing to 39 and 12.3 to 33

Please do help with your insights on these readings
Thanks!!!
 

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I just asked " what is the real reason of his trying to come back" I got 8.3 changing to 39

Line 8.3 This line says it all, it warns you not to be drawn back into a relationship because you think he has changed, he hasn't. Don't make a mistake because of convenience as you are going to end up in deep trouble once again. He will make a complete fool of you, this is all about him not you, what he wants, a slave by the sound of things, I hope you are listening. He is the wrong man for you, you know it, I know it and so does the I Ching.

"what is his relationship with that girl"
I got 12.3 to 33

Personally I think there was something going on a while ago as your previous question about her suggested it but this question is about the present and he is no longer with her which is quite obvious as he is trying to get back with you now. So I believe that something happened between them, argument, fight and she probably told him to get lost as she saw him for what he really was.
 

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