Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I think a reason for your frustration with the answer is it is not telling you what to do. Yi has a zillion ways to show you your options then put the ball back in your court which is what it's done here.So today, since I am having a particularly bad day, I asked
"advice me if I should contact X" and got the reply 21.4. changing to 27.
Let's get what it actually saysI actually asked again with your wording - "give me a picture of what will happen if I contact X" and got another (for me) confusing reply.
20.1. changing to 42.
I think an ex you still miss who is with another person is going to make you unhappy every time you talk to them. It's vital for you to recapture your self esteem now, he really isn't going to help with that, he can't because he has rejected you and preferred someone else so what does he have for you now? I think if you talk to him you might come away thinking 'screw him, I can't afford this kind of stuff' and that would actually be your metal arrow, the thing that gives you capacity and means to seek better food because talking to him is dead hard meat.I talked to him last about 3 weeks ago, mostly to see how I would feel and after that call I realized that I did not want to talk to him anymore, that it was making me anxious and unhappy (especially since he brought up his new partner).
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).