Should I end the relationship on these findings?

[jwrig04]

Please would someone help. If I have interpreted the readings correctly I will need to end my relationship.

For the last 3 Wednesdays, my boyfriend goes to work very smartly and spends a long time in the mirror! He comes home very very late too - near midnight....I asked what was going on to him and he always says he has had to work late as x y and z happened.
NB: He told me he had a problem with the broadband at home so couldnt work from home, tried to rectify it with the internet provided and had issue after issue- who said they delivered a router and he didnt get the card and now he was inconvenineced etc.. hence working from work as lots of powerful emails to send that could not be sent from his phone. He is also supposed to play football on wed eve's and he said he managed to do this too as a break inbetween work. As we were talking about the broadband he started to get anooyed so I didnt push the matter further, as i do have moments of insecurities which i am working on and I didnt want to be questioning unreasonably. THEREFORE

I asked the Iching instead:

What did A get up to last night: ans -44 no changing lines
(a female who is bold and strong and not good to marry)

Was A telling me the truth - 7.1.2.5.6>44
The army; leading to increase

Did A have sex with this woman 54.5.6.>10
The marrying maiden, a fruitless basket; garments unequal to the sister, tread carefully

Is R being Faithful to me 38 no change
Opposition - small matters - success, obsturction otherwise

Is R faithful to me 36.1>15
Darkening of the light MING; flying with drooping wings people illspeaking to modesty

Should I end the relationship 52.1.5>37
keeping still to the family - keeps toes at rest, keep jaws at rest, do homely things (ie dont do anything!)

The army reading is throwing me, i'm wondering if there is truth mixed in with lies and thats why it is so complex, but overall it seems that
A met with a woman had sex and it was rubbish! If this is the case then it will all be over for me, but I would like a second opinion as I it could be my insecurities that are interpreting this wrongly, yet i need to keep still and do nothing?!

Also in your view is there a better question I could have asked/should ask?

I really appreciate all of your views, and will think carefully over what you interpret
Thank you
xx

 

[larsbo_c]

Uh oh!

Etymology of 44 is to the left of the character a woman, to the right the character "from behind" it means a seductive woman sneaking in on you from behind, and the hexagram says you should resist her. This is the advice to a man in this situation, but it applies of course to any situation when someone or something "sneaks in on you from behind".

7,1,2,5,6 - 42
I won't translate precisely, this is just the simple version:
1. In the right order. (1+1=2 good 1+1+1=3 bad)
2. Stay inside your group (or family) (he'd be better off to stay with you)
5. Sometimes good to lay low if you need to capture game in the field, but usually it is best to be on top of things and be out in the open. (He is sneaky, not good)
6. In an army week people have nothing to do. (She)
42 Increase. Correct things so you can increase (more love between you two)
I Ching can't say no or yes, this describes the situation or what you need to do.

54,5,6 - 10
5. Means give away something nicer than you have yourself. (let him have it for a few times, he'll find out because...>)
6. Nothing comes out of this.
10 means it is a little dangerous but "the tiger won't bite"

38 simply means he is not faithful, It means opposition.

36,1 - 15 Never ask the same twice although you are upset. I Ching suggests you don't eat, fasts, although your hosts says you should eat. You can make do with less.

52,1,5 - 37
1. Carm down (lit. get your feet down on the ground for long time)
5. You are sad because you can't save the one that follows you. (maybe you can't save him just now)
37. It means family, with all that implies. But lit. "Family members, the woman will benefit by correcting things". This line is so short it is very dififcult to be precise in translation. I'd say it means he is your family.

I Ching could have said 63 no lines, that would have meant to end things. But it didn't.
Good luck!

 

[larsbo_c]

Was A telling me the truth - 7.1.2.5.6>44
Should be Was A telling me the truth - 7.1.2.5.6>42 right?

 

[willowfox]

What did A get up to last night: ans -44 no changing lines

There seems to have been a woman involved, somebody very enticing and perhaps quite sexy.

Was A telling me the truth - 7.1.2.5.6>42

Not really, as it suggests he is not to be trusted, plus Hex 42 indicates increase, a story blown out of proportion, a lie.

Did A have sex with this woman 54.5.6.>10

Not last night.

Is R being Faithful to me 38 no change

Now you know he's not.

Is R faithful to me 36.1>15

Again no.

Should I end the relationship 52.1.5>37

No, not yet anyway and becareful what you say to him, "the truth hurts".