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The Oracle tells you whichever path you take will lead to the same destination. You have to choose which path is most painless or efficient or if you prefer, most painful. Relationships do not start or end because we want them to. Relationships only end when the karmic debt is discharged.
I've been dating a women for 7 monthes. She's older than me. Since beginning, my relationship has had many ups and downs. She's a demanding person, perhaps I was a little selfish.
I don't really see where my relatioship is going. As she said me yesterday, she needs some freedom during week, seeing me only on weekends is what she wanted, reminding me at first she didn't want any man in her life.
I really love her, I think so do her... but I'd like to live with her.
I hesitate to leave; I asked Yi what shall I do in this relationship?
my cast returned: 26 3.6. >19
many thanks for your help.
reg
How does the oracle say this ? Are you able to clarify how you get your answer from the I Ching ? Is it that you think 26.6 means whichever path you choose you will reach the same destination ? I'm just wondering how you got to this interpretation.
Taken from Kong Ming Shen Shou:
Line: 160,162, 163
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The Oracle tells you whichever path you take will lead to the same destination.
But this isn't an astrology forum it's an I Ching forum. If you are giving people answers that have no relation to the I Ching that's recognisable you need to have a link to an explanation of what kind of I Ching you are using in the Exploring Divination section.
But it isn't astrology. It is another way to interpret the I Ching and has nothing to do with the stars. You should look it up. Using the single line method doesn't really tell you much if anything.
A suggestion
If something about the way you do readings is unfamiliar to most members (eg the method, the text), please edit your signature to include a link to an explanation. (You can always write this yourself in Exploring Divination.)
It is another method of reading the I Ching created by Zhuge Liang 諸葛亮 a.k.a. Kong Ming who was considered to be the most intelligent man and the greatest astrologer of his time which was during the three kingdoms period. The 384 lines each have a corresponding analogy and is read in chronological order. It is beautiful.
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The people who are well versed in the multiple I Ching systems often say that Kong Ming Shen Shuo gives them good results, even better than Wen Wang Gua. However, I am just a beginner so I have much to learn.
It does have the hexagrams. Just look it up it is available in Chinese. Lots of people are familiar with it.
I've been dating a women for 7 monthes. She's older than me. Since beginning, my relationship has had many ups and downs. She's a demanding person, perhaps I was a little selfish.
I don't really see where my relatioship is going. As she said me yesterday, she needs some freedom during week, seeing me only on weekends is what she wanted, reminding me at first she didn't want any man in her life.
I really love her, I think so do her... but I'd like to live with her.
I hesitate to leave; I asked Yi what shall I do in this relationship?
my cast returned: 26 3.6. >19
many thanks for your help.
reg
hi newlife,
this reminds me of the YiLin by Jiao Shi . . there's been talk about it in the forums before and there was a translation project going on over at LiSe's site (check here) . . From what I can tell what you are using is something similar, or along the same lines as the YiLin? If yes, I don't think it has been used in the interpretations here before and people might be a bit resistant to it - it would help if you could provide more info about it, preferably in English . .
I always found the YiLin interpretations fascinating and the texts you quoted above sound intriguing, albeit far from what we're used to, so far
ah, here's what a quick search brought up (I'm guessing you are the same 'newlife'?)
http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?11658-kongming-shenshu
about Zhuge Liang (aka KongMing)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zhuge_Liang#Literary_works
http://atouchofancientszhouyi.blogspot.gr/2012/09/friends-come-without-blame-in-yijing.html
I've been dating a women for 7 monthes. She's older than me. Since beginning, my relationship has had many ups and downs. She's a demanding person, perhaps I was a little selfish.
I don't really see where my relatioship is going. As she said me yesterday, she needs some freedom during week, seeing me only on weekends is what she wanted, reminding me at first she didn't want any man in her life.
I really love her, I think so do her... but I'd like to live with her.
I hesitate to leave; I asked Yi what shall I do in this relationship?
my cast returned: 26 3.6. >19
many thanks for your help.
reg
OK man listen here. Seems to me you must have owed her some debt in the past life or misused her. So that is why she is unloving and using you for weekend sex. (You lucky bastard you )
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So you need to go to the gym and make yourself stronger and give her the best you can. The more you can satisfy her the faster your karmic debt will be paid and then you can go on to meet the next person you owe karmic debt to.
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Best wishes
You're right.Current arrangement is in reverse. Not Good. She is the dominant party.
I don't know wich one, perhaps can you tell me more? Her elder daughter?You two have a disagreement.
Yes, I doubt it.Two features when combined, means that you have no confidence at all that it will work.
I don't understand, what do you mean here, please?Line 3: third party chen earth with a child line shen metal. This change line is taking several steps back. This means the third party is not interfering with what you do.
She's still married, but fled home two years ago. There are an house between her husband that doesn't sell. Perhaps her husband will buy back her part of house?Line 19.1: marriage document with si fire that conflicts with line 5 female hai water. No marriage.
Is this future situation that will drive to an end according to you? What kind of problem is it, if you can tellSome problem in August/September this year.
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