Should I leave N & follow the dream?H:47&8

[casparky]

Hi there,

I asked the above question about troubled relationship with gfriend and the answer was:

Hexagram 47 Oppression with changing lines 2 and 4.
Resulting Hexagram from Changing Lines: 8 Holding together.

The resulting hexagram said to ask the Oracle again if I have the right qualities to lead this community (the family with step children), so I asked the question: "Am I fit and right for this family..."

The answer I got was:

Hexagram 63 After Completion with line 1 changing giving the resulting hexagram 39 Obstruction...

All this makes sense because the relationship is quite oppressive and I resently came back from travelling and moved in (hence the "after completion"), but we've had many arguments and problems, not less financial but also emotional.


Line 1 shows that we moved too fast and put pressure on ourselves and the resulting hexagram says better to retreat - which is co-incidental because I was looking to go on a retreat to heal myself and see if we can move forward - but unlikely because I've lost attraction and still have issues with arguments we've had...


Your advice most welcome!

Thank you and lots of love and light,


Casparky...

 

[my_key]

Hi Casparky

Should I leave N & follow the dream?
Hexagram 47 Oppression with changing lines 2 and 4.
Resulting Hexagram from Changing Lines: 8 Holding together.

Hex 47 talks about all the things that are going on around you that are confining your inner and outer worlds. It talks bout all the things that have ganged up on you to bring you to this place of stuckness and that have diverted you from your true path.

47.2 - You are ground down an all tied up. Part of this may be the way you are walking your path take a look at how you are looking at things. Life isn't always a bowl of cherries but then what makes you think it should it be?
47.4 - Take a good look at the choices you have made to bring you to this point. Try to understand and look at how to make the best of where you are.Then take a good look at the choices you have to make for the future and why you want to make them.

Then you'll be able to see the union in it all and rally behind the flag.
Be Well

Mike