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jehqueiroz06
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- Nov 21, 2023
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Well, I work remotely for a company based in another state. My department is small, so I collaborate with just one woman. About two months ago, our team leader got married, and we were invited to the wedding, where some other colleagues were also present.
At a certain point during the celebration, I expressed an interest in being more than just work partners, but she hesitated, citing our professional relationship. Given that we work in different states, I mentioned I wasn't looking for anything serious, just wanting to enjoy the moment since we wouldn't meet in person again soon. She maintained her stance, and I didn't push further, as we were scheduled to have work meetings the following week. I preferred not to insist to avoid creating an awkward atmosphere in our day-to-day work.
In the week following the episode, I thought discussing it might be awkward, so I acted as if nothing had happened. We never brought up the subject again (and she seemed to act the same way). While we've talked about the wedding, we've never addressed this specific point, and it has remained unspoken until now.
Since then, I've been cautious, fearing that anything I do or say might be interpreted by her as me pursuing something more. As we haven't talked about it, I don't know how she feels, and lately, it's been bothering me. I considered bringing up the conversation now to clarify things and stop worrying, but I feel it might be even more awkward and embarrassing to revisit this issue now, two months later, than if I had addressed it in the first week after the wedding.
So, I asked, "Should I talk with her about what happened at the wedding?" and received the result: 57.2.3.5, leading to 23.
9 in 2nd: "Penetration under the bed. Priests and magicians are used in great number. Good fortune. No blame."
9 in 3rd: "Repeated penetration. Humiliation."
9 in 5th: "Perseverance brings good fortune. Remorse vanishes. Nothing that does not further. No beginning, but an end. Before the change, three days. After the change, three days. Good fortune." (what does these three days mean???)
The hexagram itself wasn't very clear to me, and the lines made my analysis even more confusing. One "good" line, one "bad" line, and finally, another "good" line. The third line worries me the most because it reflects my fear of bringing up the topic now: it might be embarrassing and humiliating.
The second hexagram has made me even more apprehensive, as it represents Splitting Apart (or Stripping Away, in some translations). It talks about a fall, with an increase in Yin lines (which, to my knowledge, is more associated with the feminine) against only one Yang line at the top. It seemed even more problematic to proceed with the decision to have this conversation after this hexagram. Although they say the second hexagram doesn't necessarily represent "the future", I'm quite confused about how everything relates in my situation.
At a certain point during the celebration, I expressed an interest in being more than just work partners, but she hesitated, citing our professional relationship. Given that we work in different states, I mentioned I wasn't looking for anything serious, just wanting to enjoy the moment since we wouldn't meet in person again soon. She maintained her stance, and I didn't push further, as we were scheduled to have work meetings the following week. I preferred not to insist to avoid creating an awkward atmosphere in our day-to-day work.
In the week following the episode, I thought discussing it might be awkward, so I acted as if nothing had happened. We never brought up the subject again (and she seemed to act the same way). While we've talked about the wedding, we've never addressed this specific point, and it has remained unspoken until now.
Since then, I've been cautious, fearing that anything I do or say might be interpreted by her as me pursuing something more. As we haven't talked about it, I don't know how she feels, and lately, it's been bothering me. I considered bringing up the conversation now to clarify things and stop worrying, but I feel it might be even more awkward and embarrassing to revisit this issue now, two months later, than if I had addressed it in the first week after the wedding.
So, I asked, "Should I talk with her about what happened at the wedding?" and received the result: 57.2.3.5, leading to 23.
9 in 2nd: "Penetration under the bed. Priests and magicians are used in great number. Good fortune. No blame."
9 in 3rd: "Repeated penetration. Humiliation."
9 in 5th: "Perseverance brings good fortune. Remorse vanishes. Nothing that does not further. No beginning, but an end. Before the change, three days. After the change, three days. Good fortune." (what does these three days mean???)
The hexagram itself wasn't very clear to me, and the lines made my analysis even more confusing. One "good" line, one "bad" line, and finally, another "good" line. The third line worries me the most because it reflects my fear of bringing up the topic now: it might be embarrassing and humiliating.
The second hexagram has made me even more apprehensive, as it represents Splitting Apart (or Stripping Away, in some translations). It talks about a fall, with an increase in Yin lines (which, to my knowledge, is more associated with the feminine) against only one Yang line at the top. It seemed even more problematic to proceed with the decision to have this conversation after this hexagram. Although they say the second hexagram doesn't necessarily represent "the future", I'm quite confused about how everything relates in my situation.
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