Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Thanks icastes, I believe that is quite a straightforward, accurate reading.
I think both this person and I are grown up enough to see the situation from an objective point of view (we know the situation is completely socially 'inappropriate') and we have talked about it at the very onset.
I think you hit the nail on the head when you talk about 'the lovely and tender period of affection' that would eventually break up. I think we both know that that would be the best that we can aspire to and we are both reluctant to move in any direction. (he in particular, as he's a much more cautious personality in general and I also think he obviously feels quite ambivalent about my current relationship status)
What makes it difficult is that the tender and loving affection is very hard to let go (much more than any physical pleasures, though the thoughts are there, it is not an attraction merely based on lust. we have a real friendship)
I think in the past I've always let myself be led by my desires without thinking about the consequences, whereas this person has a great deal of difficulty letting go of control and over analyzes his feelings to the point of being completely stuck. Maybe we are both meant to learn this from each other, that the truth often lies somewhere in the middle??
That said, do you think 24 can imply a return to a friendship or a complete return to being strangers? I also drew 24 (changing to 3..) when he recently got back in touch after a period of silence.
Would love to hear more of your insight. thank you so much so far. )
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).