Son leaving home?? 61.3.5>26

[goddessliss]

Hello,

My son's father has come back to town and my son seems keen to live with him (sadly for me) so with this in mind I asked.

Show me my living conditions changing in the next 3 months Hex 61.3.5>26

This looks to me like my living conditions will change for the better with a few tears here and there but my son not actually going anywhere, but quite possibly him seeing that perhaps the best place for him to live is with me.
And also me finding that I am at peace whether he lives with me or not.
Interesting - line 3 maybe drumming, maybe resting - he just got a set of drums a couple of days ago.

thks
Liss xx

 

[pocossin]

Show me my living conditions changing in the next 3 months.
61.3.5>26

This hasn't been responded to in several days, though an especially nice casting since 61 is visually a bird's nest, and a young one is proposing to leave the nest.

Six in the third place means:
He finds a comrade.
Now he beats the drum, now he stops.
Now he sobs, now he sings.

What if he drives his dad crazy beating on the drums? The ancient Chinese drum was an instrument of mourning and used in the ritual of 'calling back the dead' as in hexagram 30, especially meaningful for you, I would think.

Nine in the fifth place means:
He possesses truth, which links together.
No blame.

Suggests (as you said) that he will be back if he does leave. Also, 26 suggests restraint of the male. I think he still needs your supervision.

 

[chingching]

also 26 is about rasing big cattle, is your son big and blokey? I agree it looks like he needs to be 'home'. (do you feed him nutri-grain....)

I think 6 at 3 is also saying he just needs sometime with his dad right now, so his 'keeness' to move in with his dad probably is just 'in the moment'.

I didnt see this thread here before now

 

[chingching]

posted twice accidently

 

[goddessliss]

Thks pocossin and chingching - Yes he is very tall now with quite a deep voice, he is the youngest of my 3 sons.
Since posting I have realised that my son wishes his dad was different and he could live with him but his dad is an alcoholic and weed smoker which causes him to have erratic and weird behaviour.
My son even suggested we could ge back together as husband and wife..........what tha?
Moving right along - Maybe the back and forth is him going to visit his dad in hopes things will be different and then coming home and taking his frustation and emotion out by beating the sh... out on his drums. Hence the sobbing and then, the singing, may be that he is in a band that practise at least 3 days a week and he just loves it.
'He finds a comrade' - despite the negatives of his dad, there always was a special bond between them which I guess is just that father and son thing that a mum's not part of so perhaps momentarily when he's with him that is still there. But 'restraint of the male' makes me think, my son is very disciplined in himself and when he's dad suggest he does something 'risky' my son just says 'don't be stupid, dad'.
Example - My son is on his L's and when they were out driving his dad said 'why not just take the L plates off the car so we can go faster' instead of going the speed limit required by Learner Drivers.
Anyway he is supposed to be hanging out with his dad today for a couple of days so see what eventuates.....have fun Liss xx