understanding a reading

[TrulyTracie]

HiI have only been learning I-ching 1 day, my question was regarding a man I've been seeing since Nov last year and I'm constantly getting mixed messages from him, his actions when we're together seem to say he has deeper feelings for me and he has also said he does, but when were apart he acts aloof and distant, saying were going too fast or that were not in a relationship, I really like him and would love to be with him.Can anyone help me understand this reading.

 

[Freedda]

Hello Tracie, and welcome.

The context and background for your question is clear but it is hard from the text file to figure out what the reading was? Can you add it into the thread, maybe like:

'Hex XX with moving lines T and U, changing to Hex. TI'

Also, was there a specific question you asked about this guy and your relationship with him?

Best, D.

 

[Trojina]

HiI have only been learning I-ching 1 day, my question was regarding a man I've been seeing since Nov last year and I'm constantly getting mixed messages from him, his actions when we're together seem to say he has deeper feelings for me and he has also said he does, but when were apart he acts aloof and distant, saying were going too fast or that were not in a relationship, I really like him and would love to be with him.Can anyone help me understand this reading.

I don't know what the reading is but I'm not sure you need a reading to tell you he's wasting your time. His behaviour shows that. Don't waste another minute on someone who tells you you aren't in a relationship especially if you have sex with him. He sounds like he is just messing you about, having the bits of the relationship he wants and treating you meanly with disrespect. These aren't 'mixed messages' this is one very clear message that he's using you. He acts close at times just to keep you hanging on so you are still there when he wants you. He's being a complete bastard frankly and no reading you could possibly share would change the facts about him you have shared.


No reading needed, move on.

 

[rosada]

54.4-19.
You received the hexagrams The Marrying Maiden, line 4 and Nearing. These hexagrams emphasize the importance of taking things one step at a time and not rushing ahead. It reads to me as if the ic is telling you not to act as if he has made a commitment to you when he has not. If you are allowing him to have the sort of physical intimacy you should only allow a committed partner, or even if you are only allowing him to sweet talk you, tell you his feelings as a lover would, then 19 says you are jumping the gun. Next time you hear from him tell him that you two need to take a step back, that if he’s not comfortable with the idea that you two are in a relationship, fine, you like him and want to consider him a friend but you don’t sleep with your friends. This may cause him to reconsider how he sees the two of you but it’s more likely 54.4 is saying if you hold off you will meet someone new who is a better fit.
Best wishes and welcome!