What are his intentions? 21.3 to 30

[Tallulah Native]

I asked how does M feel about our relationship, and I got 21 Biting Through with changing line 3 that talks about:

"gnawing dried flesh, and meeting with what is disagreeable. There will be occasion for some small regret, but no great error."

It changes to 30 Clarity or The Clinging.

So M and I have a platonic relationship, but I've always had a crush on him. Recently I was doing some light flirting and he was very responsive to it. He seemed all for it, flirting back, doe eyes, deep hugs, lots of attention, all the works. He seemed full on into it. So he gave me his number and I texted him, but he was being distant and taking forever to text back. So I stoped.

So I don't know if he wants to keep things platonic, or if he's interested in more, or what. I asked how does he feel about our relationship and got 21.3 to 30, and I'm still confused. Does anyone have any insight?

 

[rosada]

You went a bit deeper, flirting etc. and discovered something disagreeable: he's not as enthusiastic as you had hoped. Regrettable, but no harm done.

 

[arbole]

Also can talk about him. Something that he didnt say, that build up to be something like a poison (thats the translations that i have). And let it that out, leads to a small shame.


Those things that you didnt say it at the right time, and you keep chewing them until it gets poisoned because you didnt spill it out. So, getting it out can be sort of like a clumsy attemp.


I dont know, its hard to make reading respecting others. But from what you say, it might be that, that moment when you cross a point of being uncomfortable to just being friends and also being uncomfortable to come out with your intentions.

And making questions like that, migth build up that sort of situation even more. What do he thinks, what do he want, thats all question that we ask ourself it those kind of scenario, because is uncomfortable to stay or to move. Rosada answer can be right also.


What about trying another question, like an advice or what is the situation between the two of you.

 

[Tallulah Native]

I'm sorry it took so long to reply! I didn't get a notification. I didn't think to think that it could be referring to me. I thought that it would all be about him because I asked about him. Ok, interesting.

 

[Tallulah Native]

Can you elaborate on that first part more? Are you talking about me or him? Oh, and don't worry about if it seems respectful or not. I am most concerned about an sincere interpretation. Feel free to say as you please.