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This is my second thread today, my first asked "how is my case proceeding 24.1.5 8" to find out how it is now.

This I was hoping to see what is held in the future. I don't thing Yi offers this? Which may be why I'm confused in my interpretation. Anyhow, I hope I am able to gain some insight and appreciate any support or learning I may gain.


what can i expect from him next in court 41.3 26

'Decreasing: there is truth and confidence.
From the source, good fortune.
Not a mistake, there can be constancy.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.
How to use this?
Two simple baskets may be used for the offering.'


Compensating sacrifice? Am I the sacrifice, is he sacrificing his relationship with his son? Will he sacrifice his ego and explain himself / apologise? Or do I need to sacrifice something? I offered supervised visits with me and a girlfriend, but he chose to continue through court. Now he must do supervised visits with strangers.

Line 3
'Three people walking, hence decreased by one person.
One person walking, hence gains a friend.'
'Decreasing: there is truth and confidence.
From the source, good fortune.
Not a mistake, there can be constancy.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.
How to use this?
Two simple baskets may be used for the offering.'

This is confusing I've had this hexagram a number of times in the past year because of the history. He said he was divorced but apparently was not, leaving me and our son at a disadvantage. This is why I left him, moved city and rebuilt.

Does the group of three refer to him, his wife and I. I am alone because of the supreme state being their marriage.

Or does the group of three refer to him, our son and I. He is alone because of the closest bond being between our son and I.
Either way I see the court case as splitting us apart.


Thanks again for any opinions on this thread.
 
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Kia Ora

Sorry this is still going on, from my opinion things may be coming to a conclusion. I dont want to get your hopes up but it appears favourable.

I see line 3 as things correcting themselves, like bird of feather flock together. The journey you made with your ex as coming to an end. I think things work out for you due to line 6. I believe the ruling will be something you are happy with. Curiously the line does refer to families.

Line 6 is talking about increasing without decreasing, so you could see that as you are happy with the verdict as you keep the relationship with your son without losing anything. Trying to think of an example. Like you win something and no-one gets hurt, it could be that you and your ex are both happy with the outcome.

Wu: His wishes of not taking a loss will benefit others. No error. Perseverance brings auspiciousness. It is advantageous to have undertakings. His subordinates are so dedicated to their assignments that they act as if they had no families.

You could take this you are thinking what is best for your son and they agree. Most times courts do want children to stay with their mothers if possible. Sometimes if the child is old enough they simply ask the child where they want to be placed. Hex 6 I believe is the obvious conflict plain and simple. Whenever I have receive that hex and tend to know what its about.

So i am seeing this as the walk you have taken with your ex will come to end, he will go down one path and you will go down another, also i am seeing that your son will walk with you as he (your ex) has chosen to go down another path so he will walk it alone then meet with people of his same feather and you also.

Line 6 I believe will possibly be a surprisingly harmonious outcome

Hope I am right

Steve

More on Line 6

Legge -There will be no error. With firm correctness there will be good fortune. There will be advantage in every movement that shall be made. He will find ministers more than can be counted by their clans.
 
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Seeing this is a serious matter would be nice to get some other people opinions as well

Steve
 

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Kia ora Steve

I made an error in my original post. I wrote 41.3 6 but it should have been 41.3 26.

So all I can assume from Line 3 that the path is coming to an end.

I really appreciate you responding to me and feel terrible to have made an error. The hearing date is set down for March. His lawyer was opposing parts of my original affidavit but the judge has approved my supporting affidavits from an ex colleague, whom he beat up in an unprovoked attack and from my older son (now 19) who lived with us for three years. The judge suggested he start supervised visits and so he has put his ego aside and is complying.

Hex 26 - Legge: Controlled Power symbolizes both restraint and the accumulation of virtue. What is restrained accumulates its strength and increases its volume to become a great reservoir of force. The Judgment teaches that if one is firm and correct in this endeavor he may then engage in public service and enjoy the king's grace.

I hope this refers to me being restrained and growing in strength. I am representing myself in court as I've paid $8k already and felt my lawyer was only interested in me submitting to unsupervised visits asap. I felt bullied and feel more confident in my own ability to tell my truth. Perhaps this is a virtue, to open myself to superiors with the truth of my memories, the pain, fear and hurt.

Again Steve, my apologies and thank you for your response. I hope I get better at my own translation, when my mind settles I will really start to study this. I love it.
 

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haha really i should have checked the resulting hex, thats my fault as well. Ok so yes i believe the paths will be split so if your ex is on the new path he will walk it alone, and it is clearly mentioning three people, i believe thats correct.
Once these things go to court the only winners are the lawyers, maybe thats why he is calming down as well. He is probably thinking financialy this getting out of hand, When people say i will take you to court very rarely do they think of the real consequences.

Even your mind is calm sometimes its hard to do your own readings.

Steve
 

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Least we can get a laugh from my crazy reading of line 6 and hexagram 6 which doesnt even exist. its a shame coz the thread will probably get lost.

Have a nice Saturday
 
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Hi Wairua,

I wrote two personal experiences with 41.3 > 26, and how they turned out, in this thread.

what can i expect from him next in court 41.3 > 26
I can't tell exactly how this line will play out in court, but it sounds like he wants a clear decision on custody, or, the court (regardless of what he wants) will make a clear decision on custody.

how is my case proceeding 24.1.5 > 8
It sounds good to me, and to your favour. The case doesn't go far (24.1) and the decision is just (24.5) and people who are close to each other remain close (8), so I believe the custody decision will be in your favour.

Wishing you good luck!
 

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Thank you Diamanda,

The thread was excellent.

From Hilary: The one person who leaves the group is the same one who gains the friend. That's someone doing Great Taming with Decrease.

I think this must refer to his inability to commit as him leaving the group.

From Hilary: The lone walker gained a friend: the prince. A personal connection can inspire trust in ways a majority vote - let alone 'everyone says so!' - never could. Also 'You can't forge a meaningful relationship with a group, but you can with one individual at a time.'

Perhaps this says that his friend is his lawyer. Maybe he is encouraging him to make a personal connection as he would have better luck with this than in court. I’d like it to mean that he will stand in the truth of our personal connection instead of listening to what everyone else says he should do, but I think he’s gone too far.

Also from Hilary: Stephen Field says, 'it means that the two remaining become friends.'

His demand has dropped from full custody to a week unsupervised. A relief that son and I won’t be separated.

Your experiences with 41.3 26 Diamanda confirms this other unexpected friend and led me to reflect on my question, “What can I expect from him.” It includes both of us and so I’m unsure whether the friend coming is for me or for him. I presume it’s his friend although I’ve moved away from home, I have son and am not alone.

Hilary said sometimes others have experienced this third party as a possible idea or ulterior motive rather than a person. I can’t see how this would work in this situation. All ulterior motives are now disclosed … I think. I hope.
 

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Just as an update to this thread.

The interpretations were amazingly accurate. Thank you.

The parental order was recently confirmed in my favor, supervised visits for him. We are definitely walking down different paths. He hasn't rung our son all year.

Not a happy ending but the best we could have asked for in the situation. Really awful time in our lives. So glad it's over and thanks for your interpretations they were peace in the storm !
 

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