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Newbie here. Taking a break from some of the heavier topics I have been posting. I wish I had more to contribute to other people's threads but I've only been doing this for a couple of months. I'm definitely still learning.
So.. I have a close friend who was there for me all year but then started to snub me throughout the fall, just when I could have used her support the most. She is a weird mix of being a very empathetic person who is also insecure, narcissistic, and selfish. I'm sure we all know such complex characters.
I asked, what did I do or say to cause her weird behavior?
41.5.6 > 60
I'm not sure how to interpret this... 41 is decrease but lines 5 and 6 seem prosperous. 60 for self control I can certainly relate to. Last year I was able to clear off my credit card debt and start the year anew... I became much less extravagant with my expenses and stopped frittering away resources. I didn't treat myself to many things but when I did they were on clearance or secondhand. I stopped spending my money purely on vanity and instead invested in useful things for the home or for life. I stopped being so cavalier about having a good time and tried to keep something for a rainy day. But I wouldn't say that I am miserly or unwilling to share funds with others; that is definitely a huge no-no for me. At the same time, I noticed that my friend's spending has gone through the roof. She went from being oblivious about material things to stockpiling designer items. It's odd! Is she jealous? or is there something I'm not reading correctly..
Maybe she thinks I'm a killjoy?
What do you think?
So.. I have a close friend who was there for me all year but then started to snub me throughout the fall, just when I could have used her support the most. She is a weird mix of being a very empathetic person who is also insecure, narcissistic, and selfish. I'm sure we all know such complex characters.
I asked, what did I do or say to cause her weird behavior?
41.5.6 > 60
I'm not sure how to interpret this... 41 is decrease but lines 5 and 6 seem prosperous. 60 for self control I can certainly relate to. Last year I was able to clear off my credit card debt and start the year anew... I became much less extravagant with my expenses and stopped frittering away resources. I didn't treat myself to many things but when I did they were on clearance or secondhand. I stopped spending my money purely on vanity and instead invested in useful things for the home or for life. I stopped being so cavalier about having a good time and tried to keep something for a rainy day. But I wouldn't say that I am miserly or unwilling to share funds with others; that is definitely a huge no-no for me. At the same time, I noticed that my friend's spending has gone through the roof. She went from being oblivious about material things to stockpiling designer items. It's odd! Is she jealous? or is there something I'm not reading correctly..
Maybe she thinks I'm a killjoy?
What do you think?