Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
just in case you are still around, hod has this panned out?Thank you so much for your input. As I've mentioned in one of the other responses, this continues to be something of an issue, and it's definitely testing my limits. But I can say that sometimes these situations are extremely enlightening. I'm seeing as much to work on in myself as I'm finding questionable attributes in him as well. While in many ways the relationship is going very well, the ex is the sticking point, and it's a race between my patience and this person's constant presence to see who wins out. I'm trying to be understanding, but I can feel my understanding edging toward ultimate irritation and a lack of trust. Time to revisit the I-Ching and see what else it has to say... Thank you again!
Yes it can be frustrating when that happens and soooo frustrating that they don't update.....I just wasted 5 minutes reading the thread as I thought it was new, then I saw it was from 6 years ago and the querent hasn't been here since 2015.
It would be better to simply hover over person's name so you can see when they were last here. If it's within the last year or two it may be worth posting on their thread. If they haven't been here for over 3,4 or 5 years then maybe just send them a message. Otherwise people think it's a current thread because by responding you have bought it up the page so it looks current.
i am very sorry, i did not think about this, and will not do that in the futureI just wasted 5 minutes reading the thread as I thought it was new, then I saw it was from 6 years ago and the querent hasn't been here since 2015.
It would be better to simply hover over person's name so you can see when they were last here. If it's within the last year or two it may be worth posting on their thread. If they haven't been here for over 3,4 or 5 years then maybe just send them a message. Otherwise people think it's a current thread because by responding you have bought it up the page so it looks current.
sorry! it was my inexperience, now i know how to approach this better in the futureYes it can be frustrating when that happens and soooo frustrating that they don't update.....
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).