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Moderator note: the thread of Lucuma's that Miakoda refers to is here: https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...-incredible-bad-luck-in-dates-continue.34798/
Lucuma's reading of 18.2.4.6>62 is exactly what I received yesterday when asking for guidance in processing a first date. I love it when we receive the same/similar answers for generally the same question. The comments above were helpful to me, but I'm still trying to parse out the meaning of the reading.
The backstory is that I've been on a dating site in incognito / private mode for a few months, and carefully choosing who to contact (I've been stalked in the past and don't want that repeated or started up again). The half dozen or so men that I've "liked" since I joined the site didn't respond. So I went to a dating coach for advice and subsequently some of the cooler stuff listed on my profile was pared away to make me less off-putting.
This guy was thoughtful and aware in his profile, and when I contacted him he responded immediately. The general reading about him before the date was 22.3.6>24. We met at an outdoor coffee shop and he was at times delightful to chat with...however...mostly he talked a lot for a long time about not much, and he listened even less. He also shut me down hard a few times, and I felt embarrassed by that. Towards the end, he said that he already had two women on his "short list." And then he wanted to know if I was willing to date him again! (What the what?!?)
Perhaps he was nervous? It's not easy dealing with trauma and the subsequent isolation (he lost his wife two years ago in a sudden accident). Or perhaps he was simply insecure like the man who disappointed lucuma? Or perhaps the 18>62 answer is pointing to myself?
Like lucuma, I, too, have had a series of disappointing dates. I've been hoping to meet someone who wants to be a partner. Instead, the (available) guys I've met since my marriage ended don't seem to be looking for love or even to be liked -- they want to be admired. I wonder if this dynamic could be something I'm unconsciously seeking? Or maybe I'm just too ______??? and most older American men aren't comfortable with anything resembling a partnership of equals? Or it could be that the universe is sending these types in my direction so I'll learn whatever it is that I'm supposed to learn and move on....
If this is happening to promote my own growth, my-key's take on the caterpillar to butterfly is particularly relevant:
The comment Yi is making, for me, seems to be clearly pointing towards your approach to meeting this man or the perspectives now held as a result of your communications together. 18 very much places the onus on working on inner decay, so that you invigorate and empower parts of yourself to stand up morally and ethically and to be strong. It invites in its purest form the transformation from caterpillar to butterfly and a different future through the seeds you plant now. (Nuclear 54)
18.2 - directs you towards a place of balanced inner stillness where you can find ways to be more considerate. compassionate and nurturing. Thus, applying a remedy for the mother wounds.
18.4 - invites a stepping away from the wounds of authority and the associated immaturity that still informs the choices being taken. Remaining as you are will only continue your distress.
18.6 - invites you to connect with the inner wisdom that you hold. You will benefit from distancing yourself from the kings and lords that currently hold sway in your world.
Anyone care to comment?
Miakoda
Lucuma's reading of 18.2.4.6>62 is exactly what I received yesterday when asking for guidance in processing a first date. I love it when we receive the same/similar answers for generally the same question. The comments above were helpful to me, but I'm still trying to parse out the meaning of the reading.
The backstory is that I've been on a dating site in incognito / private mode for a few months, and carefully choosing who to contact (I've been stalked in the past and don't want that repeated or started up again). The half dozen or so men that I've "liked" since I joined the site didn't respond. So I went to a dating coach for advice and subsequently some of the cooler stuff listed on my profile was pared away to make me less off-putting.
This guy was thoughtful and aware in his profile, and when I contacted him he responded immediately. The general reading about him before the date was 22.3.6>24. We met at an outdoor coffee shop and he was at times delightful to chat with...however...mostly he talked a lot for a long time about not much, and he listened even less. He also shut me down hard a few times, and I felt embarrassed by that. Towards the end, he said that he already had two women on his "short list." And then he wanted to know if I was willing to date him again! (What the what?!?)
Perhaps he was nervous? It's not easy dealing with trauma and the subsequent isolation (he lost his wife two years ago in a sudden accident). Or perhaps he was simply insecure like the man who disappointed lucuma? Or perhaps the 18>62 answer is pointing to myself?
Like lucuma, I, too, have had a series of disappointing dates. I've been hoping to meet someone who wants to be a partner. Instead, the (available) guys I've met since my marriage ended don't seem to be looking for love or even to be liked -- they want to be admired. I wonder if this dynamic could be something I'm unconsciously seeking? Or maybe I'm just too ______??? and most older American men aren't comfortable with anything resembling a partnership of equals? Or it could be that the universe is sending these types in my direction so I'll learn whatever it is that I'm supposed to learn and move on....
If this is happening to promote my own growth, my-key's take on the caterpillar to butterfly is particularly relevant:
The comment Yi is making, for me, seems to be clearly pointing towards your approach to meeting this man or the perspectives now held as a result of your communications together. 18 very much places the onus on working on inner decay, so that you invigorate and empower parts of yourself to stand up morally and ethically and to be strong. It invites in its purest form the transformation from caterpillar to butterfly and a different future through the seeds you plant now. (Nuclear 54)
18.2 - directs you towards a place of balanced inner stillness where you can find ways to be more considerate. compassionate and nurturing. Thus, applying a remedy for the mother wounds.
18.4 - invites a stepping away from the wounds of authority and the associated immaturity that still informs the choices being taken. Remaining as you are will only continue your distress.
18.6 - invites you to connect with the inner wisdom that you hold. You will benefit from distancing yourself from the kings and lords that currently hold sway in your world.
Anyone care to comment?
Miakoda
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