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skittalion

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So last year there was this guy who seemed to be coming onto me, but then he seemed uncomfortable around me, then it seemed like he changed my life, then he didn't want anything to do with me, but we have a ton of mutual friends and I can't understand why any of these things happened.

So I asked the Iching, what is the nature of my relationship with so and so and got:

31
with changing line 4
becomes 39

please help
 

ginnie

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Well, you described it yourself. This is a very unstable relationship because you both keep changing your minds about each other.
 

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ok, so I'm curious for the relationship to happen, but at this time he def. does not seem interested. do these hexegrams give any clues?
 

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so then I asked the Iching what is the nature of the obstacle between us and got 6

6, conflict
no changing lines


followed by: what can i do to help resolve this conflict between us

I got

18
changing lines 3 and 4
becomes 64

18.3.4>64
 
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31.4 generally indicates the relationship will run according to your ideas about it. he will follow your thoughts.

Hence if you want to change things then you have to make the make the first move...or be responsible for putting things right (18.3 and 18.4)

I think you may need to be more proactive or at least let him know what you are thinking.
 

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ok, but he has asked me not to contact him in any way, so I'm not sure how I can put anything right?
 

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He must feel very strongly if he said for you to leave him alone. If I were you, I'd let time pass and you can always revisit your interest in him at a later date. It could also be that you and he are just not compatible. Why not let go of trouble instead of getting further involved with it?
:)
 

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