what now ??? many options

[hbhind]

we'll I've booked my trip to visit my lover which we've been talking about for 5months but out to the blue AFTER HE KNOWS I HAVE BOOK THE PLANE TIX he's warned me not to come (of course after I've warned him to tell me if there is any reason I should not book it) he's going back with his ex, I've done alot of work with astrology and all our charting show we are tied in some way (saturn influences or we have obstacles) and venus is in retrograde which is poplar for old love revisting and fleeing just as quickly when venus goes direct- I am still flying out but wont be contacting him at all since I found him to be inconsiderate and not upfront is his communications but I get the feeling that he may contact me when things with his ex don't turn out like he planned??
when I asked How are we tied (cause it seems like nothing does right now) if we are currently (if temporarily apart) now????
I got #7 the army- are we fighters??survivors?? what binds us??
I asked how do i get what i want from him??
I got #1 Creative with changing line 5 fly great dragon( take the flight??) changing to #14 Abundance
then I asked about his feelings toward me??
I got #50 Cauldron 2x - tranformative???
this all sounds positive but it's hard for me to look at it that way cause he is all messed up right now and needs to straighten his life out-I feel like i have to give him time and space and eventually it will work out in the end- although i can't really see the forest for thetrees right now. but something is still telling me to take this flight- regardless if i see him or not cause it's about my growth not his....help??

 

[willowfox]

How are we tied if we are currently (if temporarily apart) now???? got #7

He is like a magnet and draws you toward him.

I asked how do i get what i want from him?? got #1 line 5 changing to #14

Use your feminine cunning and your numerous abilities, you are smart, so if you persevere you can snag this one.

then I asked about his feelings toward me?? got #50

Looks good enough.

You are really not asking the right questions about this situation, you need to ask some very straight and to the point questions and not these irrelevant ones like above.

 

[Trojina]

we'll I've booked my trip to visit my lover which we've been talking about for 5months but out to the blue AFTER HE KNOWS I HAVE BOOK THE PLANE TIX he's warned me not to come (of course after I've warned him to tell me if there is any reason I should not book it) he's going back with his ex, I've done alot of work with astrology and all our charting show we are tied in some way (saturn influences or we have obstacles) and venus is in retrograde which is poplar for old love revisting and fleeing just as quickly when venus goes direct- see him or not cause it's about my growth not his....help??

Why would you waste another nanosecond on this guy

 

[hbhind]

TROJAN_
I am not wasting a nanosec on this guy he is an a-hole. I get the sense that later he will try and contact me when things don't work out with his ex "if that story is even true". if this happens I wish to be prepared. at this point I would like nothing to do with him but how does him being a a-hole tie us together- I don't feel tied to him at all. Everything is negative and blows. I do not wish to be tied to him. in fact it's hard for me to not be angry I want very bad things for him. it's hard for me to let go of this anger right now. I want to be forgiving but I don't let people walk all over me.