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What should I do with this pregnancy? 38.1>64

vikk

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Hi all,
So this is continuation of my hurdle with this he pregnancy.
They couldn't persistently see the bladder in my baby. There was a lot of going back and forth on either it is a bladder extrophy (very rare birth defect) or a case of no bladder development (even rarer birth defect).
They finally saw the bladder but very small and some urine reflux back into the kidney. They also couldn't say definitively whether it is a boy or a girl more inclined to a girl. Today I got confirmation from chromosomal test that it is a boy. All of this suggest that it is a bladder extrophy:
- abnormally small bladder
- urine reflux back to the kidneys
- hard to tell genitals

I asked what I should do with h this pregnancy and received
38.1>64

I see it says that this pregnancy is a lost cause and I shouldn't "pursue" it. 64 tells me that my path in becoming a mother is not over and I will have another child.

What are your thoughts?

Love,
Vikk
 

rosada

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38.1 Let the horse run free, don't try to stop it - let the fetus develop.
See hateful people. No mistake - you are uneasy after seeing the ultrasound pictures but as you consider the situation you come to feel at ease with the baby no matter what and no longer see this stranger as "hateful".
64. Before completion -- You have not yet come to a decision.

Bottomline: It would not be bad to continue with the pregnancy even if there are medical problems, but it's your decision.
 
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diamanda

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I'll more or less echo rosada.

Do not chase/move. You got the 'horse' again in your answer... The line says it will come back.

And more importantly:

The line text says that you are meeting with evil people. The additional line text (Xiang Zhuan) says "because the rule/law is at fault". I've noticed many times that when higher-up people are wrong, they will just stick to their faulty 'line' no matter what. Like politicians, they will never admit they were wrong, even when they know they are mistaken. Because of your casts so far, I don't believe them that the baby has a rare defect.

Overall the cast advises to not act, as the situation has not played out yet. The I Ching, as you know, has many ways to tell us to strip something away. Your cast does not say that.
 

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I concur with diamanda and Rosada that this is an auspicious casting. You're undecided and something is still unclear about the situation (64) but 38.1 is telling you that the horse (the fetus) doesn't require being chased, that the hindrance is temporary. Look at the phrasing of your question. You didn't ask about your chances for becoming a mother overall, but about this specific pregnancy and what you should do with it. Yi answered that the problems (hateful people) you're experiencing will prove to be temporary. What does temporary mean in Yi terms? It might include a very challenging period after his birth, of surgical intervention or other corrections. Scary to contemplate. But this casting suggests it will end well, overall. My own gut feeling from this reading is that it could be an extremely difficult year of your life, but ultimately one you will look back on and say was worth it. I hesitate to state it so boldly because ultimately of course this is your decision and you are the one going through the challenges, now and future. But it is my sense from it.

I wish you the best of luck.
 

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