What to consider when communicating? 2.6 to 23

[Dr Daunt]

Hi,

I recently decided to reach out to a romantic interest I went on a couple of dates with about 4 months ago. There was a strong connection and we spent a lot of time talking over the phone and video over the course of two weeks and then we had a couple of hiccups around what seemed like both of our insecurities and she summarily cut things off. I reached back out to her yesterday (after nearly 4 months) with an innocent "hello... thought about you recently, hope you're doing well" kind of message and she responded with something similar. I asked what to consider while communicating with X now and got 2.6 to 23. I take it as the past conflict was a big enough problem that any rekindled connection is unlikely, but I thought I'd pose it to the group. I was torn about even reaching out to her at all but decided to after getting reading 38.4 to 41. Perhaps I needed to reach out simply to get closure - I don't know. I welcome any of your thoughts and will surely let you know the outcome. Thanks.

 

[rosada]

I see 2.6 as indicating being given too much, so one is no longer able to continue to be Receptive. Like if someone talks to you at length without letting you respond you finally snap and say, "I can't take on any more! I need to sort things out in current my life before making any future plans." I think this is telling you that the two of you broke up, took some time out, because a lot of other areas in her life needed to be dealt with this last winter. Now I see 23 as saying your past relationship roles have been shed and you two should have the attitude of a total fresh start, a new life. Will you be old friends who haven't spoken in years? Or will you just take up where you left off? Don't immediately try to reconnect as lovers. You broke up because something didn't fit right. Give yourself time to move around and create a better fit.
38. is Siblings. Maybe think of her as a sister. Call and talk like a friend.

 

[Dr Daunt]

Hi Rosada. Thank you for your insightful response. The "being given too much and no longer being receptive" definitely characterizes the initial cutoff. Whatever the future holds, I know that taking things slow and carrying on in a lighthearted, friendly way is the best path forward, as frustrating as this often is with my nature.

 

[Dr Daunt]

I wanted to give an update after about 10 months since the reading: I am currently in a long distance relationship with the woman I asked about in the reading. We started communicating again, and the relationship began building from there. However, things have also been bumpy along the way and have been close to falling apart numerous times.

Rosada, your interpretation was accurate regarding the things she needed to work out during the time apart before being receptive to a relationship, and the advice to keep things simple and friendly in the beginning proved to be helpful. The future of our relationship is not fully clear but we love each other and are doing our best to make the relationship work. Thank you!