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Hello MaryBlueSky, thank you for the answer!It's spot on, yes I'm limited , I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have... (that means, not having a place, not meeting anyone new, often being at home because my so called friends disappeared and don't facilitate at all my needs to meet people and have fun... let's also say i have not enough money). Another thing that freaks me out is that at my age they all have a lot of experience while I still have a very low esteem on my body and can't improve it quickly, for example. Actually I dont know which of these problems the I ching is pointing at, but im pretty much into a vicious circle and cant get out of it xDHello Cherry B!Hex 14 talks about Great wealth, so you have the potential to have a good sex life.Line 3 - "A duke makes an offering to the emperor. The inferior man is unable to do this";" The superior man places his property and talents at the service of the ruler and the public. The inferior man employs them for his own gain."You need to sacrifice something to improve your sex life. Maybe you should focus more on your partner's desires. OR, there is something that lowers the quality of your sex life for the sake of other things (partner? stress? hard work?...).Line 6: "One is blessed by heaven. Good fortune. Benefit in everything." You can have a satisfying sex life if you are willing to work on it and take the proper steps.Hex 54- Marrying Maiden- shows that you aren't still in the appropriate place to take action: "Here the desire of pleasure employs movement to attain union. This action will be evil because the lines are in inappropriate places."You should find what ruins your ex life first to decide what do do with it.Good luck!* The italic parts are cited from http://www.jamesdekorne.com.
Ok that is a pretty traditional moral reading, you are of marriageable age? The Yi is after all pretty Confucianist, which places special emphasis on family..
how can i revive it?14.3.6 to 54. So...
.what to do in order to have an active sexual life? 14.3.6
how can i revive it?14.3.6 to 54. So..
not meeting anyone new, often being at home because my so called friends disappeared and don't facilitate at all my needs to meet people and have fun... let's also say i have not enough money). Another thing that freaks me out is that at my age they all have a lot of experience while I still have a very low esteem on my body and can't improve it quickly, for example. Actually I dont know which of these problems the I ching is pointing at, but im pretty much into a vicious circle and cant get out of it xD
what to do in order to have an active sexual life? 14.3.6
how can i revive it?14.3.6 to 54. So...
u_u they have a less daydreaming perspective on relationships/love/sex/affairs.
First day he treats you well, then he doesn't give a damn about your safety (like when you have to reach the car at night)
Hello MaryBlueSky, thank you for the answer!It's spot on, yes I'm limited , I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have..
I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have...
TrojinaI have no idea about Cherry B's identity. Maybe several people use this accout -some friends or relatives for example.
I think the reading is the first and most important thing we consider when we answer the OP. Of course one can use factors such as personal views, social norms, OP's biography to answer- & that's usually good, but beyond the expectations of an I Ching forum.
I mean the additional information is useful but not necessary, unless we lack the basic data
'Hi I asked will he come back I got 62. what does it mean thanks'
I say this because you said a reading about one's sex life is to be interpreted differently depending on the querent's gender. Can you explain more? Sounds like the role of social experience becomes more imporant than the I Ching answer.
I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have...
A suggestion
When you post a reading here in Shared Readings, please include your own response to it, too. Then you're really sharing your reading - which is your conversation with Yi (the I Ching) - and not just the numbers.
No need to write a book (though you can if you like, of course ): just jot a few things down. For instance... does anything in the answer sound familiar? Feel right - or wrong? If a friend had given you this answer, what would you say to them?
Also, you don't need to be some kind of expert for this. I think it's even an advantage, sometimes, not to be: you don't have a freight of existing ideas to carry round, so you're free to see your reading with clear eyes. Then other members can benefit from your unique perspective, and you benefit from centring yourself in your own sense of the reading - engaging with it as yours, not just some lines on a page - before you open it up to others' thoughts.
well, it makes sense... and no, im not thinking about marriage at all... i'm willing to understand the ''heaven's approval'', perhaps a sense of inner connection from the beginning??what to do in order to have an active sexual life? 14 Having What is Great. 14.3 You need to understand sex as a precious offering you making, a valuable thing you are giving. Love is that.14.6 It needs to be with a person that is intended for you with heaven's approval...Ok that is a pretty traditional moral reading, you are of marriageable age? The Yi is after all pretty Confucianist, which places special emphasis on family.- LL.
Yes, the usage of this language is very ancient, so it might not mean anything traditionalistic. But if it helps, my own values had been too much traditionalistic for a long time, probably i chng says that i might change it, and change my vision on ''roles'' . BUt taking baby steps maybeThe I-ching has never given me a moral answer and it has never pushed me in the direction of the "classic family values" either. It is true that in its metaphors the I-Ching often represents family or let's say patriarchal values -- but the language of the texts given to us is the language of the humans who have written it down while they were influenced by the values of their time. The I-ching itself, which is much more than just a text in my opinion, stands for me as an advisor above all systems that humans have invented to structure society.
yes im a girl, im etero, 25, and dont smoke. lol does it really matter all of this in a reading? I wouldnt love it to be influenced by an opinion of me. (by the way, i never did things under other people approvals...someone called me stubborn just cuz i argued about their pressure on me)There's further weird discrepancies ….In one thread you say you are 25 years old but in another https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...nswer-with-sarcasm-or-should-I-just-let-it-goyou say your parents forced you to write to a teacher Maybe you just graduated late.....and your parents tell you what to do at 25 years old.There are however many instances where you talk about 'boys' you like being interested in other girls and so it sounds like you are a girl but you aren't, apparently you are a gay guy - must be because there a dozen or so threads about guys you are interested in - but several times you mention safety and so on in getting to your car which makes you sound like a woman.The reason I'm asking is if people are spending time answering you it's better to be clear not that you have to say/declare your sexual orientation except if there is discrepancies then that is confusing
guys/boys don't do any effort nowadays, probably they dont even like anyone. probably, they just flirt around with who is not shy at all.You have given us nothing. Other people have come along and explained the lines, even written the lines out for you ??You can read as well as they can, you could have offered your thoughts on the cast surely.That makes me wonder how much you are 'putting out' when you are with other people. Are you waiting for people to make the moves for you ?Do you somehow imagine it's their job to do things for you, sounds a bit that wayTrojinaI get you! I like what you do. You hold people to their highest!sylvia1ching
dont worry, i prefer answers without influence of who i am and what's my experience behind...but well, if it changes anything, im a girl and i like boysTrojinaI have no idea about Cherry B's identity. Maybe several people use this accout -some friends or relatives for example.I think the reading is the first and most important thing we consider when we answer the OP. Of course one can use factors such as personal views, social norms, OP's biography to answer- & that's usually good, but beyond the expectations of an I Ching forum. I mean the additional information is useful but not necessary, unless we lack the basic data.I say this because you said a reading about one's sex life is to be interpreted differently depending on the querent's gender. Can you explain more? Sounds like the role of social experience becomes more imporant than the I Ching answer.
by the way, i am a girl and i never did things under other people approvals... I actually dont get why you posted another post under this topic, which is very different topic. If the question was who I am, you could ask and i might say it...
I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have...
Ah, so for the word ''guys'' English mean people, while Americans mean boys/people with the same word?You just posted my words under Sylvia's name.You have had numerous threads now on the same topic of how you can get sex and when you can get it. Seems an odd question to ask so many times especially as it appears devoid of any connection with the concept of a relationship. There seems this urgency like the thread on your sex life by the end of the year - I mean there's no race on is there ? Sorry that confused me as even thinking in terms of 'guys' as 'people' one wouldn't normally use 'guys' in that context in a sentence 'average guys my age' if you are a girl.
Ah, so for the word ''guys'' English mean people, while Americans mean boys/people with the same word?
I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have...
I'm living with so many restraints that average guys at my age don't have...
that average guys [guy's = guy (who is/are) ]at my age don't have .. you are man who does not play well as woman. You are no Tootsie!
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