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Hi Rosada! Thank you for your response and insight, much appreciated.I think of 15 as representing a common decent human being. (Though such seem rather uncommon unfortunately!) Could be encouragement that while you were this guy might have been your One and Only the ic is saying don’t make him out as anyone special. There are a million fish in the sea.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. Buy your self some new shoes. It helps!
It's an interesting answer for 'what to do with this broken heart?'Hexagram 15 to me seems to be about coming back in unity to myself?
I'm confused here. Anyone who has any thoughts?
Hello Trojina,I'm very sorry to hear of your father's passing
It's an interesting answer for 'what to do with this broken heart?'
My immediate thoughts were this is advice to see it only as it is, as it really is, without branching too far into idealisations of what was or 'could have been' with your partner. The pair of 15 is 16. If you turn 15 upside down you have 16, two different ways of handling reality. 16 visualises, imagines, conjures and 15 asks you very much to deal with what is as it is.
There are threads of people's experiences for each of the hexagrams in uc form, here is the one 15uc if you've not yet seen it it may give some ideas
Your Experiences with Unchanging Castings, Hexagram 15
Anyone have an experiences, ideas.....or even dreams relating to the the particular significance of hexagram 15 in it's unchanging form ? I have my own small theory that paying attention to the pairs is especially helpful in interpretation of unchanging castings so I looked at what Lise said...www.onlineclarity.co.uk
Thinking more about it I wonder if this is simply a comfort and a form of praise from Yi. Sometimes Yi just comforts, sometimes it can just be like a holding, not giving 'advice' as such but being with you where you are, acknowledging your situation and confirming that despite the pain you are in you're on track, you are doing well. 15 is I think the only hexagram where all of the lines are of good auspice. This hexagram very much stresses good qualities in a person.
The Oracle
'Integrity, creating success.
The noble one completes it.'
The Image
'In the centre of the earth there is a mountain. Humility.
The noble one (lightafterdarkness) reduces the many to increase the few,
She weighs things up to even out their distribution.'
So here one is responding to reality just as it is, meeting reality where it is and working with it. 16 conjures or prepares for a reality but in 15 it is the reality right where one is that one has to deal with.
I feel you're getting approval from Yi, I think you are the noble one here and it seems Yi is pointing to integrity in completing/working through things. Relationships are work, being honest in relationships and meeting the other as who they really are as who you really are, authentically, is very hard work, it's no small thing yet it is not celebrated as 'hard work', not really recognized as achievement. But in 15, this humility, the modesty of meeting others truly as they are is very much praised by Yi.
I wonder also if this is a comment on your relationship to your father? You see there is invariably work being done in 15 and it's not always work that shows on the outside. Caring is work but it isn't seen as work, there's all kinds of 'work' we do that the world doesn't call 'work' and 15 can draw attention to the work in daily life and relationships that really builds good character....I can't think of a better phrase, 'good character' isn't quite right, 'integrity' I guess is the lovely quality of 15.
So Yi confirms your integrity. You have a broken heart but your heart is shining nonetheless because it is full of this lovely quality of integrity is what I feel the answer may be pointing to. In an unchanging cast the Image can be especially helpful and it shows someone being aware and balanced about what is theirs to do and what isn't. Hilary has said 15 is often a reminder to her that 'it doesn't all depend on me'.
Whatever happened between you and your partner isn't all your responsibility, that's the levelling out in the Image.
I think this is a lovely answer, not so easy to apply very specifically in words but in the feelings it puts over, well I do think you are being praised and you could take this both as an affirmation of who you have been and who you are in relationships and also as advice to take each days as it comes. 15 can also be very pragmatic, the focus is on what needs to be done. For now focus on what needs to be done and I hope you can feel the affirmation Yi is giving through this answer.
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