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simona

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For 6 years now, I've been having a lot of problems in findind a job that I like.

6 years ago I was a teacher -for 5 years. I decided to quit - I can't explain here the reason, but anyway it was a job that I liked. And since then, I'm struggling to find a job that I like. In the last 4 years I also went back to university, hoping to improve my chances. But the problem is now almost the same as 6 years ago. Every year I have to struggle to find a job, and every year it's just a job, just for living. And every year, the company closes. So every year I have to look for a job. And every year I have a lot of problems in finding one.
It's clear, I'm having a problem.

My question was: what blocks me in finding a job that I like?

The answer is: 46.1.2.5 > 63 . And I don't understand it. Help, please!
 

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I can't see anything physical blocking you, so it must be you that is the problem, it would seem that you are against every job before you even begin, your attitude is just so negative that you don't want to even try to like the job, you feel like an outcast from the start so you give up. There is nothing blocking you except yourself, you have becoming very self defeating, you need to change. Is it impossible for you to go back to teaching again? Would that solve the problem?
 

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it must be you that is the problem, it would seem that you are against every job before you even begin, your attitude is just so negative that you don't want to even try to like the job,

It might be me, sure, but the question is: how comes that, from the 6 companies I worked for, 5 closed one year after I started to work there. It might be my attitude, ok, but it's hard for me to belive that my negative attitude "closed" 5 companies.
And if it's my attitude, where is the problem? That's what I try to understand and that's why I asked IC. I tried to understand by myself and I didn't come to any conclusion.
 

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For 6 years now, I've been having a lot of problems in findind a job that I like.

6 years ago I was a teacher -for 5 years. I decided to quit - I can't explain here the reason, but anyway it was a job that I liked. And since then, I'm struggling to find a job that I like. In the last 4 years I also went back to university, hoping to improve my chances. But the problem is now almost the same as 6 years ago. Every year I have to struggle to find a job, and every year it's just a job, just for living. And every year, the company closes. So every year I have to look for a job. And every year I have a lot of problems in finding one.
It's clear, I'm having a problem.

My question was: what blocks me in finding a job that I like?

The answer is: 46.1.2.5 > 63 . And I don't understand it. Help, please!

Wondering if you've hit the ceiling of the level you're at ? If maybe you need to aim 'up'. I'm not exactly sure from the reading why i get this impression. I guess 46 I associate with reaching upward and outward beyond your current levels and 63 suggests a stage of something already completed. Wondering if you have already explored all your options on the level of the job you liked and you keep returning to things which require similar capacities from you whereas it is actually more of a time to reach beyond what you do easily, to stretch yourself perhaps. If theres something you dreamed of doing you thought you couldn't 46.1 suggest approaches to that may be favourable now and 46.2 that some effort towards that could be worthwhile and 46.5 to take it step by step.
Well I don't know if you can apply that to your situation but in anycase I see the reading if it applies directly to your question as saying you are in a process of growth and expansion the jobs don't fit you, you know that somaybe just the Yi confirming that but overall its a positive reading i think in that the reasons why you can't get and keep a job aren't negative at all quite the reverse. And who knows this growth maybe over and above any job anyway

I don't see anything at all in the reading to suggest a negative attitude . Also this process of short times in jobs them then losing them maybe also part of growth, storing up all kinds of experience for the future. Anyway I don't see the reading as suggesting you're going wrong anywhere.
 
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