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So you consider the attractiveness to project trustworthiness- at least in my case.In response to your reading I feel it holds you in good steed that people tend to believe in what you say or do and it made me wonder what you are doing in your life.....what you do for a job or interest?
Anyway, I asked the I Ching "what's the use of attractiveness for me" and got 49.2.4.5> 11
[Unrelated, sarcastic comment has been removed.]What's the Use of Attractivenss for Me? 49.2.4.5 .... I'm going to turn 31 and won't be young for a long time.
So I wish to die before turning 35.I'd start by saying, just be glad you not turning 35 because that's when you wake up and see that your skin is falling off in chunks, your teeth fall out, and they ship you off to a leper colony! So, here have part of the answer to 'what's the use of attractiveness?' - the fact that this hasn't happened to you yet!
So I wish to die before turning 35.
I have thought about that, too- if only decline is in store for me from now on then why to live? But let go- it can be the subject of another thread I'm not going to start for the moment. I limit myself to say that the youth and the health are the most important possessions, and if that's gone, the life isn't worth it. And no, the transcendent, altruistic goals such as love and helping others won't compensate it. I haven't lived a full life, I'm not satisfied, and if I'm to even lose my basic possessions, then I'm better not to live.
This might be so, however ....... health are the most important possessions, and if that's gone, the life isn't worth it.
Also I'm 60 and like becalm plenty of people still tell me I'm an attractive woman so either they are after our money (i don't have any) or well you know we've still got what it takes
Actually I don't agree with Freedda's take on what happens when you turn 35....tbh before I even read that I wanted to say that our' attractiveness hits it's peak in our 40's!!! I don't know enough about genetics etc. to know why but many, many people seem to just look wonderful in their 40's as well as becoming more confident on a whole lot of levels.So I wish to die before turning 35.
I have thought about that, too- if only decline is in store for me from now on then why to live? But let go- it can be the subject of another thread I'm not going to start for the moment. I limit myself to say that the youth and the health are the most important possessions, and if that's gone, the life isn't worth it. And no, the transcendent, altruistic goals such as love and helping others won't compensate it. I haven't lived a full life, I'm not satisfied, and if I'm to even lose my basic possessions, then I'm better not to live.
I guess my sarcasm didn't quite come across as clearly as I meant it to. It must be that because I'm 65, I don't know how to be funny anymore - even though I'm getting more attractive by the minute! If you read my post, I am definitely not saying that that life or attractiveness ends at 35. Far from it.I don't agree with Freedda's take on what happens when you turn 35 .... before I even read that I wanted to say that our' attractiveness hits it's peak in our 40's!!!
I'd start by saying, just be glad you not turning 35 because that's when you wake up and see that your skin is falling off in chunks, your teeth fall out, and they ship you off to a leper colony! So, here have part of the answer to 'what's the use of attractiveness?' - the fact that this hasn't happened to you yet!
Obvious to me and you, but than again, things don't always come across online as the do in person (or how I see them in my mind), so hence my clarification. All is now well in Clarity Land.Come on isn't it obvious he's joking !?
This is true and whilst I haven't read everything you've posted on Clarity I've always thought you to be a very serious sort of person but also my bad for not reading the whole thing - I sort of just skimmed through it as I was making preparations for my day ahead!!!Obvious to me and you, but than again, things don't always come across online as the do in person (or how I see them in my mind), so hence my clarification. All is now well in Clarity Land.
Ms. Bluesky: I and others have responded to your reading. I removed my attempt at humor - my comment about turning 35 - because it seems like a distraction. You are free to read my actual response, which is still there and directly addresses your question.At 30 I am more happy than I was in 22. But what about 10 years later?
It's not so much that I was thinking that you don't care about what I wrote, but that you seem to have gotten stuck on the 'turning 35' stuff only - and may you passed over my actual response. 'Turning 35' is what you focused on in your responses, and I am trying to point you to my actual response, and not my sarcastic comment - now removed.Sorry if you felt like I don't care. I'm not depressed at this moment but concerned.
Okay, I see now what you're saying. I didn't get that at first: it is a stupid and shallow comment, but not yours!Re-read my comment.
Stupid boys!!!"It's a survival of the fittest thing. Kids your age are so incredibly stupid that if they weren't so cute they'd be drowned at birth. The cuter they are the dumber they are. But with your looks I bet you're brilliant." My 15 year old boy cousin explaining why I didn't need to wear lipstick at 12.
John KeatsSome thoughts: 49.2 refers to revolution, this is the perhaps the cycle of life, beauty leads to pregnancy, birth, a new generation. 49.4 is saying in the Wilhelm analysis that revolution must be founded on inner truth. The poet John Keats said that truth is beauty and beauty truth - some may disagree though it's a possibility. Perhaps 49.4 is saying this great generation or birth or revolution can only be born out of this beauty - without this physical beauty later it's not possible. 49.5 perhaps is saying the purpose is to be visible, to be bright, to be distinctive. The context of hex 11 in the Wilhelm talks about heaven on earth and peace - this is young beautiful lovers, perhaps in the context of your question?
I like Carl Jung's ideas about the morning and the afternoon of life. He says until 35 is the morning - we are more outward focused - on sexual congress, on spreading out in the world etc. 35-40 is when a transition and shift takes place inside people often, based on his experience as a psychologist running a practice for 50 years. Then in the afternoon of life (40 onwards), people are more inward focused in his experience, more spiritually interested, having reaped the physical harvest in the morning. He saw that some people didn't do in the morning what they ought to have, and then they tried to do it in the afternoon, and ran into psychological misfortune.
You talk of how you don't wish to decline, but you won't decline if you are part of a chain - your physical beauty is regenerated in another girl, or a boy, or both, and so perhaps it's saying the true use of your attractiveness is yo be a mother to beautiful children.
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