Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
A year and half ago I saw a text that came through my husband’s phone and after many conversations and research on my behalf I found out that my husband was texting other random women. He said it’s more of an emotional outlet and that nothing physical happened. Through many therapy sessions I was able to better myself
And not be so emotional hurtful and toxic towards him(which he said was the reason why he needed the emotional outlet).
As a newbie, I think the cauldron and well are confirming what your husband has been telling you...that he talks to these women for his own well-being.
I have a strong suspicion that this is not one of those cases.
I can delete my posts if you want just let me know or PM me I know my reaction is quite strong but I am so appalled at how beaten down you are that you can even think this is down to you.
Trojina
Be strong. I get being polite. Sometime we get to take a stand even if it causes one to take notice. One should always gently cause one to take notice and with the intention of not necessarily being right but for the authentic reasons. Thank you for taking a stand.
Sylvia
As a newbie, I think the cauldron and well are confirming what your husband has been telling you...that he talks to these women for his own well-being.
My follow up question:
Should I divorce my husband?" and Yi's answer, 17.6 to 25.
Line 6
'Seized and bound to it,
And so joining and connected to it,
The king makes offering on the Western mountain.'
I’m unsure what to make of this. Seized does that mean yes do it and stick to it?
Again thank you for letting me express my feelings.
"If a man finds 'random women' (Chaptershare's words) to 'talk to' for therapeutic purposes one wonders why it needs to be a woman and what the 'random' implies. I got the impression from Chaptershare that he was getting them off the internet or something like that . If that's the case then one has to wonder why it has to be a woman to give him this 'emotional release' and of course whether he actually means sexual release which I'd assume. After all he could speak to his friends or family or a therapist for emotional release so who are these women ?"
Your reasoning here, is part of the reason I don't get why people get married in the first place - as someone who has refused marriage twice - I see each human being as an individual, able to choose how they will seek out their own well-being irrespective of what others - including a partner, husband or wife would expect them to. If said partner, husband or wife is not happy with how they are, then they are free to leave that person.
My interpretation is just as possible or relevant as anyone else's even if I am new to this.
Because he told her it was for his own well-being, and guess what a WELL showed up in her reading. It might not be what anyone else wants to believe it means, but I'm guessing he would say that talking to all these random women makes him feel good...the only issue is it does not make his wife feel good, and only they can sort that out together in real life.
PLEASE EXPLAIN
If a man finds 'random women' (Chaptershare's words) to 'talk to' for therapeutic purposes one wonders why it needs to be a woman and what the 'random' implies. I got the impression from Chaptershare that he was getting them off the internet or something like that . If that's the case then one has to wonder why it has to be a woman to give him this 'emotional release' and of course whether he actually means sexual release which I'd assume. After all he could speak to his friends or family or a therapist for emotional release so who are these women ?
What women are they ? Talking to women from various dating sites etc would surely indicate this is not 'therapy' it's a form of cheating for kicks nothing more.
My interpretation is just as possible or relevant as anyone else's even if I am new to this. Because he told her it was for his own well-being, and guess what a WELL showed up in her reading. It might not be what anyone else wants to believe it means, but I'm guessing he would say that talking to all these random women makes him feel good...the only issue is it does not make his wife feel good, and only they can sort that out together in real life.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).