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why he did not fall in love with me? 53.2.3.6. to 29

scorpioontherun

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Dear all,
Really I do not get the answer .. I just see the 52.3 .. they avert their eyes .. that's what he did. he disregarded me ... but as to the answer to my question (which I asked to get a better understanding ) I do not get the meaning. Could you help please?
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Scorpio
 

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Basically, both 52 and 29 promise failure in love as you are not compatible. In your case, 52 also says this effort is all one-sided. 53 is a bit hopeful, but you cannot be impetuous or rash and you must go very slowly. However, as you see from the other reading, this love affair probably is going nowhere.
 

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looks like you made some big mistakes
 

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I just see the 52.3 .. they avert their eyes ..
52.3? Do you mean 53.3? However, it's neither of them, you're quoting 9.3 in fact...
 

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Anyway, trying something:
- because he is younger than you?
- because you are too similar in character, maybe both a bit apprehensive or anxious (or some different attribute of Kan)?
- is he also Scorpio or some other sign of Water?

As for the lines, you seem to be at line 2 but he is simultaneously at lines 3 and 6. he seems to have left for an 'expedition' and never come back... there are robbers on the way, so... can he have met someone else at work or something? Seems possible. This could explain why you become (in terms of trigrams) two separate hearts with different aims in hex 29.
 

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Thanks all for replying
@gato: don't we all make mistakes? But I have no clue what I have done. He did not say anything. He just said he loves me but not the "true love" way. What I think was my mistake? To allow him to take me for granted, to allow him to set all the boundries for possibly him to reproach me to be "cold" (I'm a scorpio I CAN be cold on the surface) .. but that's my speculation, no indication whatsoever from his side, just that he respects me and that he has the greatest esteem of me (BS galore).
@vederedentro: no, he is 5 years older than me and yes we are both water signs (I'm of course scorpio and he is cancer) and yes another woman was involved in his decision to go. He saw her, liked her and decided to part from me. And for the lines: sorry my mistake. The reply is simply 53.2.3.6. to 29. I gather that with multiple line changing it is the middle (when there are 3) one that rules or that gives the answer. But I also belive that all the lines should be taken into consideration ... will he be back ... line 3 says no. But who knows. the question is do i want him back?
 

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Ah and line 2 seems to speak about the past. We always met at his place or ourside to have dinner ... but now we are sadly at line 3 ...
And I also asked show me the 2 of us in terms of a relationship in 6 months time. 3 UNCHANGING.
So it could mean that both of us we are going to have a new life
or that we could form a new relationship between us (possibly resuming being just friends, or more, the Yi does not say that and I'm certainly not suggesting Yi tells me we will be toghether romantically again)
I asked how will be my love life in 6 months
8.1 - 3. (again)
Nice .. hopeful ... let's hope I'll get on my feet again.
Thank you all for your time and care
Scorpio
 
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vederedentro, the way i see it, he is on line 6 while she is on line 3 ( "killed" by some news or actions )
 

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"No relationship with what is harmful" ... what was harmful in your relation ?
maybe "To allow him to take me for granted, to allow him to set all the boundries" ?
 

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vederedentro, the way i see it, he is on line 6 while she is on line 3 ( "killed" by some news or actions )
Yes Gato, I think you're right. She says that line 2 seems to represent the past, so I think they were both located at line 2, then they parted and are now split between lines 3 and 6. In this condition, she must be at line 3, while he has already left and is at line 6.
Previously I was reading yin lines as being feminine and yang lines as being masculine, but this isn't always true.
no, he is 5 years older than me
Ok, so there is some technical reasoning to be made here. I thought he was younger based on the trigrams (Gen-Xun), but he isn't. In fact when a sixth line + some other ones are activated, the inverse hexagram and its corresponding lines should also be considered. This is confirmed because we now have hex 54, where she (Dui) is younger than him (Zhen). I think that lines 54.3.6 should be taken into account because in some way they are simultaneously present with lines 53.3.6 (I'm ignoring line 54.2, because we said that 53.2 is in the past).

53 is the hexagram of courtship, it focuses on the respect of the right steps, social rules and so on. Line 3 is at the top of Gen, so it may have stayed still too long, anxiously (Kan) waiting for a return, and so line 6 has flown away. To stay still is contrary to the dao of hex 53, which means "to progress" (xugua). It points to 20.3, where it cannot but contemplate its own life, advances and retreats.
Line 3 has failed to "improve the ordinary" (or: make the ordinary its virtue) (daxiang). It is'nt moderate and appears as too strong or stubborn, and is unable to change its resolution, even if it feels wrong, or to take a resolution if it has decided not to (I'm saying this for a precise reason, see below). It lacks adaptability and so loses support and is unable to protect even itself from the outlaws.

Line 6 is he flying away and so inverting the hex into 54. 54 means you have lost the control of the situation because a stronger feeling has appeared in him and he has been seduced. In this sense both of you are the "marrying maiden". [I'm tempted to say that lines 3 and 6 may describe his destiny here, but maybe I'm daring too much.] Anyway the Image says that you should have "understood the transitory" from universal signals that you may have overlooked.

The interesting fact is that 54.3.6 gives 14, and this connects us to your second reading (and someway confirms the validity of the procedure so far).
14 is called "great possession" but literally means "there's great", or "realizing in great". It marks the passage from virtual to real. So there is the possibility to obtain something great by realizing its potential, but you are located at the first line. It's too low and doesn't really enter the situation. It doesn't even activate the "engine" that permits to this dao to work, the nuclear hex 43. So this is why I was talking about a decision that hasn't been taken at the right moment. The result is that a different kind of process, sharing the same engine, is triggered: 50. If you can't make that kind of relationship real, you can always shift to a different, more spiritual, level. Which, after all, is the same that using the goose's feathers for the sacred dance. The pieces seem to fit.
Anyway, line 14.1 seems to mean that this relationship wouldn't have been the best for you, it could have been even dangerous... maybe your greatest potential together can be realized as friends, sublimating the ingredients you have as if cooking them into the sacred vessel?

This could be why in 6 months you will be at hex 3, coming from hex 8, as the last two readings reveal (I read it as a single reading, the doubling of hex 3 showing that your relationship with him will still be lived by you as "love life"). 8 represents unions by affinity and attraction, and in such unions usually people need each other. Whatever form may this union take, it will be like starting anew, like sprouting into virgin soil, with great potential and great work to be done to sort things out of the primordial chaos.

Does something out of all this (speculative) stuff correspond to what you have lived/are living?

EDIT: oh what I had missed! If we exclude line 53.2, we have 53.3.6>8. Great, isn't it? The more, 8 is the polar opposite of 14, and in both readings the first line is changing. Six months between the two readings, so exactly one month for each line to change. Everything's perfectly connected now, cosmic cycles show...
 
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Caro Vederedentro,
thank you for your analysis

"is unable to change its resolution, even if it feels wrong, or to take a resolution if it has decided not to (I'm saying this for a precise reason, see below). It lacks adaptability and so loses support and is unable to protect even itself from the outlaws"
That's definetly me or both of us actually. Too much drama into this relationship but I was hanging in there, feeling anyhow I desearved a lot more than the "breadcrumbs" of affection I was receiving. Yet my love for him was true and I was listening to my heart instead of listening to my guts. So spot on. I should definetly have understood the "transitory of the situation". However, this guy is special, and I suppose I will always have a soft spot for him. I told him not to contact me anymore (he did that after the breakup several times to check how I was) and that I'll get back to him when I'll be strong enough to do it. But I feel it's a shame we do not talk anymore and in some months (when I feel like it really) I'll send him a message or something.
I know he cares for me, he really does, I just have to get myself to be a "virgin soil" working on me, to become without resentment, at peace with myself and possibly with him.
I did not understand "EDIT: oh what I had missed! If we exclude line 53.2, we have 53.3.6>8. Great, isn't it? The more, 8 is the polar opposite of 14, and in both readings the first line is changing. Six months between the two readings, so exactly one month for each line to change. Everything's perfectly connected now, cosmic cycles show"
could you explain?
Grazie
Scorpio
 

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I did not understand "EDIT: oh what I had missed! If we exclude line 53.2, we have 53.3.6>8. Great, isn't it? The more, 8 is the polar opposite of 14, and in both readings the first line is changing. Six months between the two readings, so exactly one month for each line to change. Everything's perfectly connected now, cosmic cycles show"
could you explain?
Grazie
Scorpio
mmmh I think I'll make a drawing of the complete scheme. This thing is intriguing.
now I'm in a hurry, this evening perhaps.
 

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This is what I meant.
It's a whole scheme (map) of your readings as I see it.
Many things integrate in a very beautiful way.
Click here to download full resolution image for printing.

 

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don't worry, it's kind of a game for me... like a puzzle :D
 

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