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I have become the target of a distant work acquaintance and I am not exactly sure why. There were a few conversations between us about two months ago that were less than cheerful and friendly. I basically told her that I knew about some issues between. Apparently this really bothered her that I confronted her upfront and honestly and now it appears that she cannot handle it and has started a personal attack campaign on me
So I ask Yi why is she so hostile towards me and I received hexagram 7.1.5 changing to hexagram 60

I am unsure of who the players are in this situation with hexagram 7.
I am unsure how to move forward but I didn’t ask how to move forward so maybe I need to ask that as a follow up?

Any help would be appreciated. I am extremely bothered and upset by this as my good name is been so soiled by her lies and untrue statements about things that she claims I did, which I did not. I have actually lost a couple of friends over this as they are believing her over me Well actually they never even asked me about her accusations they just assumed to be true becuase she is their boss and one is a friend of hers as well. Just becuase I choose to do things head on and in the open .... should not be a reason to not like me. I did not personally attack her, I just laid it all out.
 
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Ok so here is my stab at this advise from Yi

Hex 7.1 says “discipline and order when attacking —if not - disaster. IOW - follow the rules.” So therefore in the context of my question - she is hostile towards me becuase I didn’t fall in line and follow her rules. Basically I was rogue and she did not like it. She could not control me.

Hex 7.5 - couple of things here ... 1.) she might have thought others “overheard” our conversation in “the field” (((funny becuase we were literally “in the field” when the conversation occurred)))
2.) she knew how I felt about the situation already and becuase I basically restated my position - I became predictable and therefore made myself a target. And finally 3.) becuase I called her out - I basically gave away my position which she doesn’t like (becuase she can’t control me from line 1)

Does this sound about right ???
 

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you are already at war with her. You both have declared it and have battled. So now it is about how to correct this because it sounds like you would like it to end. You are offended and she is offended. So who calls peace first. That is my thoughts at first glance. I will follow up with a complete interpretation of your cast.

I would recommend that you ask the I Ching. Given that Ms. co-worker and I are warring, how do I (lorna23) create peace and friendship? Who do I get to be to source this compromise and create an atmosphere of possibility and friendship?

GO GET IT GIRL!!! IT IS UP TO YOU!!!
 

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When I began going thru your cast. I will send you my interpretation there is an element that I think will support you to protect yourself because I want to she is out for you.. is that true?
 

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Thank you sylvia1ching!!!

Ok so I asked those questions you suggested.

How do I create peace with this Situation with her? Received hexagram 17.3 changing to hexagram 49.

Who can I get to be a source of this compromise/peace? I received hexagram 44.2.4.5 changing to hexagram 52.

So my thoughts are 17.3 is saying to just walk away and walk away from this. There is not going to be any peace here. Especially when I look at the fan Yao 49.3 which I feel indicates she going to keep on her war path for a while longer (“talk of revolution goes around 3 times...”) and THEN, after she slanders me a few more times and I don’t react at all - people will see what was/ has been really going on.

On 44.2.4.5 - I think I know who this is referring to. It’s actually the man who all of this is about. It is the person that has actually created this whole situation. And I am thinking this is telling me to just be still. I don’t think he is actually going to come to my aid. It is not clear to me though what his role will be at all.
 

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Sylvia1ching - I think you are asking if she is out to get me?
Yes!!! I saw her last week at MY local spot. I approached her and said hello in a friendly way. I was actually hoping that maybe it could be the start of niceties which would at least allow us to be in the same space without tension. Well, she proceeded to tell me to get away from her, that she had gone to the prosecutors office and she was having me followed. Hahahaha. I have no idea what that was all about - so I asked the person of whom all this about - and he said she is saying someone is sending her threatening emails about her business (she owns an architecture firm). Well I know that I haven’t sent her anything. Last I email I sent her was in 2017.
Needless to say - I believe all of that is made up. For one thing - if she had gone and filed something against me I think I would have been approached or served with something. This supposedly occurred like 3 weeks ago so I just don’t think that’s true. Also - if there were emails sent - I would not put it past her for her to be sending them to herself and saying it was me. She wants me destroyed. It’s kinda scary. But lastly on that subject - our local law enforcement doesn’t have the resources to have two people following me!!! Are you serious?? That in and of itself is laughable.

Sylvia1ching- I hope that was your question and I didn’t just ramble and bore everyone to death!!!
 

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i will give my interpretation. i need coffee and little break I will be back at.

I think you helped create it only because you were not quite aware of her intent and intensity. I am going to guess she may not play by the same rules? Give me about an hour
 

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to boost you bad assness...listen to Atlanta Trap Music...Young Thug, Migos, YG, Gucci man, Lucci etc have fun

just kidding

actually i take that back get down and dirty with some rap...gangsta rap g0 girl
 
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So I asked what is the current situation between me and the man (at the center of this conflict). I received hexagram 6.6 changing to 47.
I think this means that the situation is just a truly horrible one. There is no good that will ever come from extending it any longer.
He is playing both of us (me and woman with whom I am at war with) against each other for either his own kicks or some other reason. Maybe becuase of line 6.6 it is in fact something that I have no idea about some completely unknown element of this situation.
Looking at the fan Yao 47.6 - the judgement is that no matter what I say to him about this situation - he wil not believe me. He basically is believing her lies and always will.

Is that about right ?
 

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QUESTION: Why is my co-worker so hostile towards me? How should I proceed?

HEX 7: The Army: The nature of the army is obedient and discipline and dangerous
KUN-the receptive earth/mother above KAN-the abysmal water/danger/middle son
KUN over KAN: The earth has many secrets and treasures hidden below its surface.

KAN as water:
1. The earth conceals below its surface a hidden water source that is deep and vast.
2. The water is fluid and secret but if you know how to access it can become a source of water that can support a well and all of life.
KAN as danger:
1. The Army is composed of the people, farmers and merchants alike that are in their everyday clothes but within any moment they can come out from under their street clothes and suddenly become a deadly force.
2. Danger (KAN) inside and obedience (KUN)

Hexagram has five (5) yielding line in positions 1,3,4,5,6 and one (1) strong line in position 2. This represents the general/commander that controls all of the other lines (in the times when the army is deployed).

Lorna23 you two have already declared war and have began battling. I am wondering what was that incited to thrown down the gavel.. � Human all to Human � Nietzsche

What is interesting is that this hexagram can mean both THE SOURCE when it acts as water and THE ARMY when it is war. I glean out of this new observation for me that you can source anything want but war starts it ON! I believe you offended her. You either slept with all of her boyfriends (which is not the case) or when you addressed her directly it offended her. It may have been in the way you did it. I get direct. The reason that it has perpetutated it seems like she smells fear/confusion she is like a dog and I cannot help herself. I PROMISE YOU THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT EXIST WHO WILL LIE ABOUT YOU BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT

Losing face has been the source death, honor killings and bar fights forever.

THE JUDGEMENT
The Army. The army needs perseverance.
And a strong man.
Good fortune without blame.

In order to have an effective army there needs to organization, discipline creating a fighting force.
This JUDGEMENT describes all of the qualities of a leader, a discipline force, a leader that can persuade the people that war is necessary by creating enthusiasm and passion. You must be able to create confidence in your battles and the reasons for battle.

I am going to cut this short� these qualities, attributes, requirements is to inform someone who is going to step up and attack her. I do not think this is what you want. I think you have played a part in creating drama toward inciting conflict possibly unknowingly. My impression of you is that you are a little cocky. I think there are a lot people and especially women who will be against you just because they are jealous.
I get cocky and self-assured I work in a male dominated field direct is the name of game.

I will also say that you are gathering forces/sympathy/information in order to understand .. HOW DID YOU GET INTO THIS MESS.
THE IMAGE
In the middle of the earth is water:
The image of THE ARMY.
Thus the superior man increases his masses
By generosity toward the people

Again this talks of war is something I do not think you want. I do think however she is building forces. You may need to prepare yourself because I think she is better prepared and enrolling in her cause.

She uses her position to influence especially those who are pawns or foot soldiers. She has some kind of influence over people of influence. I want to say she advocating her war subversively and it the kind of subversiveness that you do not play.

You get to act silently and unaffected. That does not mean sitting back and doing nothing. Stay away from her. Do not discuss this issue with anyone at work. Do not discuss with your work friends. You need to silently address this. Be like King Wen when was held captive by Chou Hsin. He sat silently and waited for the right time. When the time came he was rescued by his son King Wu of Chou when King Wu attacked and overthrew Chou Hsin. The way King Wen kept himself alive was through friendly and affable mannerism.

In your case you get to be professional, polite, and unaffected and avoid her at all cost.

Line 1: (---x---)
Six in the beginning means:
An army must set forth in proper order.
If the order is not good, misfortune threatens.

I think this describes your situation. You are not prepared for what is about to come down on you. It is because the situation is unbelievable and to you the cause is not just or valid. The warning is if you do not organize yourself and be proactive and do the things that will keep her from allowing any opportunity to make any claims against. That is the best way to be prepared. If she is trying to get you to court for whatever she has to prove. If no one can place you in near her she cannot do her thing.

Line 5: (---x---)
Six in the fifth place means:
There is a game in the field.
It furthers one to catch it.
Without blame.
Let the eldest lead the army.
The younger transports corpses;
Then perseverance brings misfortune.

This means war and mean war. It is an invasion. She is out for blood.

Your leadership is going mean the difference in the amount of casualties. You already have one and that is your friend. It is a dirty game she is playing.

It is up to you to get your army or support together and prepare. You cannot allow her to slaughter you.

X 60: Limitations

KAN-The Abysmal water/middle son above TUI-the Joyous Lake/youngest daughter

The unlimited waters that fall from sky are indiscriminate as to where they fall. And the Lake below is only only so large and can only hold so much water.

Another way to look at it�Danger is raining down on you. You only have so much capacity to take on this danger. It is critical to you success to determine you limits of what you can take on and seek out support. You get to be �thrifty� in how you put your energy into this situation. You have limits on what you are willing to do because you moral and correct. She may not. The point is be loyal to yourself and not engage with her.

THE JUDGEMENT
LIMITATION. Success.
Galling limitation must not be persevered in.

You get to impose limitations upon yourself for the right reasons. In your case it is to avoid issue and unnecessary accusations. This cannot last. While you are limiting your exposure you get to be active to finding a solution to this person.

She is ABSOLUTELY NOT ALLOWED TO CONTROL YOU. If you are living within her limitations for you then she is controlling you. She is using fear, confusion, and manipulation.

Set a time period be it one month or one week and in that time find out how to protect yourself.

THE IMAGE
Water over lake: the image of LIMITATION.
Thus the superior man
Creates number and measure,
And examines the nature of virtue and correct conduct.

It is IMPERATIVE that you review your behavior such that you are clear as to your participation in the thing. You are responsible because something in your nature set her off. It does not justify her actions yet if you embrace your responsibility it take back control her. She cannot take away your mistakes. Own it.

Taking responsibility for actions allows you to set limits on her. She wants to make you a victim. You are being victimize and there is a difference.

What a powerful lesson for you. You should thank her. You get to walk away empowered by the fact you own your stuff, you set limits on yourself, yet set limits on her, and in the time you are recluse you find a solution.

�To become strong, a man�s life needs limitations ordained by duty and voluntarily accepted. You become a free spirit through limitation of duty.

YOU SHOULD THANK HER ONE DAY. SHE IS SUPPORTING YOU TO CHECK YOU INTERGRITY. IT IS A BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE ALTHOUGH NOT INTENTIONAL ON YOUR PART SOMETHING DID MAKE HER FLARE.

I realized just how arrogant, selfish, righteous I was when I had a cathartic moment when it dawned on me that I was late to everything. It was that small almost unnoticeable even somewhat acceptable thing that I realized what a punk I was. How dare I assume that my time is more important than everyone else. Who was i? Big Big breakthrough.
QUESTION: Why is my co-worker so hostile towards me? How should I proceed?

HEX 7: The Army: The nature of the army is obedient and discipline and dangerous
KUN-the receptive earth/mother above KAN-the abysmal water/danger/middle son
KUN over KAN: The earth has many secrets and treasures hidden below its surface.

KAN as water:
1. The earth conceals below its surface a hidden water source that is deep and vast.
2. The water is fluid and secret but if you know how to access it can become a source of water that can support a well and all of life.
KAN as danger:
1. The Army is composed of the people, farmers and merchants alike that are in their everyday clothes but within any moment they can come out from under their street clothes and suddenly become a deadly force.
2. Danger (KAN) inside and obedience (KUN)

Hexagram has five (5) yielding line in positions 1,3,4,5,6 and one (1) strong line in position 2. This represents the general/commander that controls all of the other lines (in the times when the army is deployed).

Lorna23 you two have already declared war and have began battling. I am wondering what was that incited to thrown down the gavel.. � Human all to Human � Nietzsche

What is interesting is that this hexagram can mean both THE SOURCE when it acts as water and THE ARMY when it is war. I glean out of this new observation for me that you can source anything want but war starts it ON! I believe you offended her. You either slept with all of her boyfriends (which is not the case) or when you addressed her directly it offended her. It may have been in the way you did it. I get direct. The reason that it has perpetutated it seems like she smells fear/confusion she is like a dog and she cannot help herself. I PROMISE YOU THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT EXIST WHO WILL LIE ABOUT YOU BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT

Losing face has been the source death, honor killings and bar fights forever.

THE JUDGEMENT
The Army. The army needs perseverance.
And a strong man.
Good fortune without blame.

In order to have an effective army there needs to organization, discipline creating a fighting force.
This JUDGEMENT describes all of the qualities of a leader, a discipline force, a leader that can persuade the people that war is necessary by creating enthusiasm and passion. You must be able to create confidence in your battles and the reasons for battle.

I am going to cut this short� these qualities, attributes, requirements is to inform someone who is going to step up and attack her. I do not think this is what you want. I think you have played a part in creating drama toward inciting conflict possibly unknowingly. My impression of you is that you are a little cocky. I think there are a lot people and especially women who will be against you just because they are jealous.
I get cocky and self-assured I work in a male dominated field direct is the name of game.

I will also say that you need to gathering forces/friends, intel, information, you get to enroll someone to have your back... you get to understand how you got here.

HOW DID YOU GET INTO THIS MESS. THERE ARE NO ACCIDENTS.

THE IMAGE
In the middle of the earth is water:
The image of THE ARMY.
Thus the superior man increases his masses
By generosity toward the people

Again this talks of war. it is something I do not think you want. I do think however she is building forces. You may need to prepare yourself because I think she is better prepared and enrolling in her cause.

She uses her position to influence especially those who are pawns or foot soldiers. She has some kind of influence over people of influence. I want to say she advocating her war subversively and it the kind of subversiveness that you do not play.

You get to act silently and unaffected. That does not mean sitting back and doing nothing. Stay away from her. Do not discuss this issue with anyone at work. Do not discuss with your work friends. You need to silently address this. Be like King Wen when was held captive by Chou Hsin. He sat silently and waited for the right time. When the time came he was rescued by his son King Wu of Chou when King Wu attacked and overthrew Chou Hsin. The way King Wen kept himself alive was through friendly and affable mannerism.

In your case you get to be professional, polite, and unaffected and avoid her at all cost.

Line 1: (---x---)
Six in the beginning means:
An army must set forth in proper order.
If the order is not good, misfortune threatens.

I think this describes your situation. You are not prepared for what is about to come down on you. It is because the situation is unbelievable and to you the cause is not just or valid. The warning is you get to organize yourself and be proactive and do the things that will keep her from allowing any opportunity to make any claims against. That is the best way to be prepared. If she is trying to get you to court for whatever she has to prove. If no one can place you in near her she cannot do her thing.

Line 5: (---x---)
Six in the fifth place means:
There is a game in the field.
It furthers one to catch it.
Without blame.
Let the eldest lead the army.
The younger transports corpses;
Then perseverance brings misfortune.

This means war and mean war. It is an invasion. She is out for blood.

Your leadership is going to mean the difference in the amount of casualties. You already have one and that is your friend. It is a dirty game she is playing.

It is up to you to get your army or support together and prepare. You cannot allow her to slaughter you.

X 60: Limitations

KAN-The Abysmal water/middle son above TUI-the Joyous Lake/youngest daughter

The unlimited waters that fall from sky are indiscriminate as to where they fall. And the Lake below is only only so large and can only hold so much water.

Another way to look at it�Danger is raining down on you. You only have so much capacity to take on this danger. It is critical to your success to determine you limits of what you can take on and seek out support. You get to be �thrifty� in how you put your energy into this situation. You have limits on what you are willing to do because your moral and correct. She may not. The point is be loyal to yourself and not engage with her.

THE JUDGEMENT
LIMITATION. Success.
Galling limitation must not be persevered in.

You get to impose limitations upon yourself for the right reasons. In your case it is to avoid issue and unnecessary accusations. This cannot last. While you are limiting your exposure you get to be active to finding a solution to this person.

She is ABSOLUTELY NOT ALLOWED TO CONTROL YOU. If you are living within her limitations because of fear she is controlling you. She is using fear, confusion, and manipulation.

Set a time period be it one month or one week and in that time find out how to protect yourself.

THE IMAGE
Water over lake: the image of LIMITATION.
Thus the superior man
Creates number and measure,
And examines the nature of virtue and correct conduct.

It is IMPERATIVE that you review your behavior such that you are clear as to your participation in the thing. You are responsible because something in your nature set her off. It does not justify her actions yet if you embrace your responsibility it take back control from her. She cannot take away your mistakes. Own it.

Taking responsibility for actions allows you to set limits on her. She wants to make you a victim. You are being victimize and there is a difference.

What a powerful lesson for you. You should thank her. You get to walk away empowered by the fact you own your stuff, you set limits on yourself, yet set limits on her, and in the time you are recluse you find a solution.

�To become strong, a man�s life needs limitations ordained by duty and voluntarily accepted. You become a free spirit through limitation of duty.

YOU SHOULD THANK HER ONE DAY. SHE IS SUPPORTING YOU TO CHECK YOU INTERGRITY. IT IS A BEAUTIFUL THING BECAUSE ALTHOUGH NOT INTENTIONAL ON YOUR PART SOMETHING DID MAKE HER FLARE.

I realized just how arrogant, selfish, righteous I was when I had a cathartic moment when it dawned on me that I was late to everything. It was that small almost unnoticeable event, somewhat acceptable thing that I realized what a punk I was. How dare I assume that my time is more important than everyone else. Who was i? Big Big breakthrough.
 

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SYLVIA1CHING!!!!!! Wow! Just wow. And yes!!!

I know and own that my confronting her made her [insert whatever word] but gee whiz that was months ago. I guess she has been building her army every since. Ugh

Yes - I work in a mans world and have to be direct. I guess it has started to permeate my being.

I will try to get myself better prepared. You are so correct that all this “schtuff” is raining down on me. I hope I can weather the storm. And yes you are also correct she is “of influence”. I am just a middle class hard worker and she comes from money and doesn’t like to be challenged. I did just that and now I am paying for it. Ugh again.

Yes I prolly was a bit cocky and at times tend to be. I don’t mean anything bad by it and those how know me don’t even give it a thought.

Oh my. Well, needless to say I am a little scared. But I will pick up and carry on.
 

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I cast about a mutual friend of me and the warring party. I just, by pure chance, saw them together.
So I asked “what side is M on”?

I got hexagram 44.3.5 turning to 64.
I am thinking that line 3 means she hasn’t been pulled into this thing, yet. Not sure about line 5.
 

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I had to take a break, I have been doing interpretations … a lot of them... I would say at least 15. You see what I do so they are thourough and full of information.

I am about to start the next one. If you would like we go through it so you can learn from me so that your interpretations are comprehensive and maybe you see something that I do not

I want you to learn from me if I have something to offer you

did you listen to some gangsta rap.... girlfriend it is a sexual tuning fork. You become a bad ass bi..ch
 

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I cast about a mutual friend of me and the warring party. I just, by pure chance, saw them together.
So I asked what side is on? (the question was littered with wingding font)

I use "I Ching the Book of Changes" the Richard Wilhelm translation.

44 COMING TO MEET is about a dangerous situation is applies directly.

The judgement (this is awesome)
COMING TO MEET. The maiden is powerful
One should not marry such a maiden

Wha t I can tell you she is playing with her integrity. I understand if she is befriending her objectively but sounds like your friend has been mesmorized by the drama and thinks she wants to play.
. That is the seduction of the drama that is being created. You stand in the space of acknowledging your responsibility for the woman to want to invade and conquer. Be like King Wen and wait for the right time because instead of a bloody and difficult battle. You will move more like a Ninja where you can anticipate her moves and make the step left or right so that she is using her energy against her.

(this is great) ""The rise of the inferior element is pictured here in the image of a bold girl who surrenders herself lightly (thus she drew you in) and thus seizes power." That is the exact quote (Wilhelm, 1997, p. 171)

Line 3: It suggests that it is easy to be seduced into a mindset that is like she who is not (from I can tell) a woman of integrity. You must maintain you integrity by not becoming of the same mindset because you will lose a piece of you. The lesson is that you get to maintain your INNOCENCE and not fall into the easy, conventional, impolite, … if you become like her than what do you think happens. You get to learn the lesson again.

"There is a temptation to fall in with the evil element offering itself - a very dangerous situation."

So the outlook for that situation and specifically your friend but you get to include the War Monger...because she gets to have an experience too. Always remember to be polite and hold true to what is right, central and correct.

Line 5:
This one applies to you because your are the one who is taking from a position of humility and with out vengeance. So you will forgive this person the one friend that betrayed. You will also come to forgive Ms. War Monger. You will eventually see the soft underbelly of who she is.

It talks about how you need not to stress about your friend because of you beautiful nature

"He does not bother his subordinates with outward show of tiresome admonitions but leaves them quiet and free, putting his trust in the transformational power of a strong and upright personality.
 

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I cannot express my gratitude and thankfulness for all of your replies and interpretations. I have been sooooo stressed today about all of this. It is jist so hard when someone is flat out making up stuff about you and then on top of that threatening me in a public place, making accusations where people could hear and stuff. And then to see ANOTHER friend and co-worker talking to her and hugging her .... it was unnerving to say the least.
I saw that co- worker a little later and she acted normal so hopefully what I witnessed was not about this issue.

Again thank you so much. I will go back tonight and fully absorb your replies and try to get a deeper and more clear understanding of exactly what Yi is saying. I have came a long way with learning but it does not scratch the surface of how much I have to learn.
 

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QUESTION: How can lorna23 create peace with this womam?

HEX 17: FOLLOWING
TUI- The Joyous Lake/youngest daughter above CHEN-The Arousing Thunder/Eldest Son

The idea of following is expressed in the nature of the two triagrams. You have the youngest daughter in front of the older man. In his wisdom he concedes to following her. As she leads the wisdom and experience or integrity of the old man or older brother causes her to choose to follow him. The nature of the older brother is one of calm, wise, awareness and an attitude where he is humble and not offended by her position in front of him. He secure enough in him that he knows that it is not important to be acknowledge by the world that he is leading. In the end he know that if push comes to shove he can easily overtake her if there is danger so that she I protected.

it is not important to announce and define himself he knows who he is.

THEJUDGEMENT
FOLLOWINGhas supreme success.
Perseverancefurthers blame.

The situation for you right now is that she is leading the campaign and you are following in disbelief and confusion. She is adapting and shifting to enroll others into her drama.

The following you wish to enroll is not one of that is towards an army or war it supposed to be a following under the guise of a joyous movement. But one could observe it can be observed that this probably not the first time she has done something like this. So it maybe a joyous movement to expose her as a fraud. That is just and correct in the underlying philosophy of the I Ching. if that is so then you get to act with such composure it becomes a different kind of problem.

It may be interesting to find out if she has sued other people in the past. If she been involved with a court case where she has declared slander or she has be assaulted or raped. You may consider doing a background check. I am not sure if this applies but you may want to see if she has somekind of record...is she lawyer.
Check to see how many restraining orders or "stalking" issues or reports she has had.
Is she a person that likes to be the center of attention.. she can be very beautiful, smart but crazy is what I getting out.


THE IMAGE
Thunder inthe idle of the lake:
The image ofFOLLOWING:
Thus thesuperior man at nightfall
Goes indoorsfor rest and recuperation.

This is to ensure that you are making the moves and choices you mind cannot be over run and exhausted from stress, concern because this may be a difficult task that will require you to remain calm, compose and always with the right reasons in mind. Taking care of yourself allows you to think clearly and avoid mistakes. YOU CANNOT AFFORD THEM.

Line 3:
Six in the third place means:
If one clings to the strong man,
One loses the little boy.
Through following one finds what one seeks.
It furthers one to remain persevering.

As you address this issue you will be confronting the loss of your friend but be gaining the right influence and the right people of influence. It will allow you to differentiate people who are "inferior and superficial". The loss of friends will not be as painful as it was when you experienced it initially you are on a journey that is going to show you some very important lessons and you learn how to differentiate between what is important and whether it is important for you to dwell upon.

This is about developing your personality and knowing what you remaining confident in your choices and who are. You will not be easily distracted or influenced by other peoples drama.

HEXAGRAM 49: REVOLUTION
TUI-lake over LI-fire.. These two are in conflict and in combat. That is the obvious to you I am sure
This is perfect you are in the process of transformation.

THE JUDGEMENT
REVOLUTION. On your own day
You will be believed.
Supreme success.
Furthering through perseverance.
Remorse disappears.

As a result you will be believed and you will have an amazing transformation. You will have the confidence of your peers, you will learn how to become removed from the emotion and be able act with composure, you will be humbled and in the end you will have done everything in the right way and in harmony with heaven thus you will be with out regrets. The time of revolution is spring.

THE IMAGE
Fire in the lake: the image of REVOLUTION
Thus the superior man
Sets the calendar in order
And makes the seasons clear.

This means just as man has observed the change of season and adjusts the calendar based on the moon, sun etc. The Chinese did the every year just the like Muslim it is a lunar calendar. It is constant because the season always come but it changes because it never on the same day as last year.

This is a metaphor for you as you go forward you will now know when dark and light are in combat. you will become sensitive to any other situation like the one you have been experiencing without because surprised. You will learn how to work with it, avoid it or combat it.

 

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I have been doing this for 4 years. What has been different for me is that I have very amazing friend who lives in Arizona and I live in Texas. She started out as friend and then a life coach. Both my parents had passed but one of things i received was an extensive collectioin of book from my father. My friend who is also gifted when it comes to the spiritual and supernatural..we were talking and said my father was telling her that I will come across a book it make all of the difference because when I open it I will know what to do with it. i have known about the I ching for a long and i was not looking for it and I was goign through the boxes of books and I came up the Wilhelm Translation my mother owned a copy to ... and as soon as I recognized it ... i knew i had to pursue it. As began to read it and cast coins i found a connection to it but my real connection immediate feedback came my life coach/friend. I did her first reading August 2015 when I read to her and shared with her what my scribble meant to her and her reading she began to cry. She said there has been no one who reads me the way you do. I took that as a something to cherish and develop with her. She mentored me in the sense of the psychic connection that i was developing through the work I do for her. the "unseen" as the I Ching is as important as the seen. For example I did a reading for her this week and I was just talking via and i had not told her what her hexagram ... i asked we get together she sent me a photo of flooding in AZ and told well that is very funny because your hexagram is 29 and it is doubling KAN.. double the trouble and double the water.

Another secret i learned from John Edwards the famous psychic medium that everyone has a conduit through which they can reach to the supernatural. The way he knows he is right .. the way he defines the correct person to correct spirit is by a word or letter association. I have found that I read in the words of the I Ching whether Wilhelm wrote Fsi wrote it... i find a word phrase or concept expressed by the persons questions or in our discussion before the question
 

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This is so amazing. I so hope I can be in tune with the things going on around me more than I am now. I so hope I can evolve
 

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Yes. I had been trying connect with my cards for about probably two decades. It just never clicked for me. The first time I heard of the IChing was in 1995 while living for a very short stint in San Fran area. That was my intro. And then finally 22 yrs later i was a friends house and we were talking about life’s journey and she busted out her RLWing paperback workbook. She was using dice that day and I didn’t really follow it but I was hooked by the answer I received to my question. So relevant and so connected to the situation in a detailed way. I knew it was something I had to pursue.
It took me a few months to actually start doing it regularly but two years later I write down every cast and try to look back to see what I learned and what I missed. I even have started to know what the cast is by the number. I have yet to see it thru the building of the hexagram. But I strive to get there some day.
 

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I think i have a better understanding of what you up against. A cool, composed, unaffected distance.
 

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