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Will Jay screw me over?" and Yi's answer, 63.1.5 to 15.

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"Will Jay screw me over?" and Yi's answer, 63.1.5 to 15.

Hello, I asked this question as I am in a vulnerable position with this person in regards to business dealings. Contracts are not an option at this time and are worthless as I cannnot enforce them in the country he is in.

Thank you in advance
 

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"Will Jay screw me over?" and Yi's answer, 63.1.5 to 15.

Hello, I asked this question as I am in a vulnerable position with this person in regards to business dealings. Contracts are not an option at this time and are worthless as I cannnot enforce them in the country he is in.

Thank you in advance
I wonder if this is simply a call to make a judgement by reviewing past behaviour. I say that because with 15 there as relating you are in a good place mentally to decide this sensibly. The 15 with the 63 makes me think of someone realistically evaluating (15) what has already happened (63). Maybe you've been held up and embarrassed (64.1) and maybe you need to look at this on a very sort of scaled down realistic level (63.5).

So I'd contradict and say I don't think you are as vulnerable as you feel. You'll know for sure what's what when you honestly look at his past record and I don't think it will take too much thinking about.

63.5 is an invitation to scale your values accordingly. It could also refer directly to him. The neighbour who makes a small sacrifice does better than the one who makes big sacrifices. Is that advice for you or is it about him I'm not sure. Can you identify in any way with that story about the neighbours in line 5 ?

Simply it says less is more here, big sacrifices of any kind will not pay off as much as small sincere ones.

In general I'm getting a feel of the more you come back to your ground level values, your sensible nature, your earthiness, the better you will do. You can trust your judgement and are not so vulnerable as you think.
 

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Thank you. His past record has been more flakey than dishonest. From where he is, it is the norm to make small lies even when there are no real consequences. Example: I had flat tire when he could simply say sorry I am late. It is this that makes me wonder about him.

It is true that I am probably not as volunerable as I may feel because I am essentially the brains behind the venture and have never shared my overall strategy fully.

I have been through a lot in the past years including a reversal of fortune and other major betrayals that leave me feeling anxious all the time. I did get held up and embarrased in a life changing way. I am not sure what scaling down means. Should I go along and everything would work out ? I cannot really take a blow on this as I have sunk every last bit of me into this. It would be the literal end of me.
 

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Thank you. His past record has been more flakey than dishonest. From where he is, it is the norm to make small lies even when there are no real consequences. Example: I had flat tire when he could simply say sorry I am late. It is this that makes me wonder about him.

It is true that I am probably not as volunerable as I may feel because I am essentially the brains behind the venture and have never shared my overall strategy fully.

I have been through a lot in the past years including a reversal of fortune and other major betrayals that leave me feeling anxious all the time. I did get held up and embarrased in a life changing way. I am not sure what scaling down means. Should I go along and everything would work out ? I cannot really take a blow on this as I have sunk every last bit of me into this. It would be the literal end of me.
 

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