themis said:

You need each other and the universe has brought you together ... that's nice ! With all the trials
and tribulations, just give it time. The old sage is always at least a step ahead of us so with all the
auspicious responses, I guess the IC 'sees' that you'll succeed in persevering, with determination.
The chap in question will also realise the depth of your sincerity, loyalty and commitment. Sounds
like he'd be a good and suitable father figure for your daughter.

You'll know when the timing is right, when to make the final decision to move, a step forward in a new
and bright direction.

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Thank you.
I really hope it does work out between he and I and that he and my daughter do get along.
Despite her father being an abusive jerk towards me, she loves him very much and will no doubt miss him when we move. It would be nice if she could find some sort of comfort in the presence of another man being around and offering support to her and her mom.

I am going to try opening up to the universe a bit. Maybe there are signals I am missing that can help guide me towards the right direction.

ginnie said:

37.6: Because of her capacities, and because she considers everything and is thoughtful of everyone, she is respected tremendously.

Line 1 moving is about making all the rules clear right from the start. Agreements need to be hammered out, almost like drawing up written contracts and policies for an organization! ... Go for the win-win solutions. This stage might take some time ... because it is the opposite of blindly rushing in without considering the consequences.

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Oh, I see. Line 1 is about establishing the boundaries and rules and such. Like, agreeing to certain conditions in the relationship so everyone understands what is expected of them.
Hrm, wondering about line six and if it denotes a certain length of time. Sounds like pretty long-term to me which I like.

Sounds like the woman in line six could be an older matriarchal figure. The Queen Mother or a village crone.

chucklesthegirl said:

Sounds like the woman in line six could be an older matriarchal figure. The Queen Mother or a village crone.

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Yes. It may take a number of years to get from line one to line six.

*****Update*****

I wanted to let everyone who was kind enough to offer input into this situation and thread know that we had our weekend together a couple of weeks back and all went beautifully.

We decided to take things very slow and just basically try to start over again once I moved up there...we have both been burned badly in the past and think it's the healthy approach. We like each other immensely but he is still hesitant to commit right now due to the physical distance. We both need time to really see how we mesh over a period of time but things are looking favorable overall.

As for the ex, well, her influence is on the wane...however the situation is not that cut and dried and there have apparently been other girls in the picture. One tried to cause a lot of issues before my trip to see him and it backfired on her. She really caused a brouhaha and unfortunately for her (though fortunately for me) she is out of the picture.

So, for right now, we are maintaining a strong romantic friendship and hope to try to make things work in the future.

This is going to be a very slow process as Ginnie cleverly pointed out.

Namaste and once again, thank you!

Wishing you all the best in this endeavor. Thanks for the update. Interesting to see this in light of your new thread of a few days past.

All the best.

Thought I would add an interesting footnote....I did a reading a few days back asking about the girl who attempted to cause problems before my trip....guess what the reply was? 19>23

Guess yi is reminding me that the elements that are no longer needed are slowly being peeled away, and that she was an aspect of that. Nice to be able to look back and see how the reading reflects the situation.

Oh, and Elias, I see what you mean about my career readings reflecting this situation. I guess my relationship with my friend has taken a large portion of my thoughts and it is seeping into the other readings I do.