How to approach to read about love and relating?

[Telmina]

Hello everybody,

I have tried many different approaches to getting help through the Oracle to understand a deep, geographically distant and complicated friendship/ love of mine that has been on and off for 25 years. I can’t really know his feelings towards me. He is married and has a family.

I would appreciate it alot if anyone in here could help me get perspectives to work on to get close to doing a good relationship/ love reading - like what to focus on in the reading, how to formulate a question. I feel I have got myself lost.

Hope to hear from you,
Kind Regards Telmina

 

[Trojina]

He's not available in any sense so how could any answer help you understand what he thinks?

For ideas about forming a good question this might help

Blog post: Advice for relationship readings

Most people seem to get started with the Yijing by asking about a relationship. It’s a good way to start: it’s present, immediate and something you care about – when you ask these questions, you’re really asking them. It’s also potentially tricky, that mix of getting started with overwhelming...

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[Trojina]

Someone answered you about this before and you never went back?

38:2,3 to 30 about a love affair

I asked the Yi «Will it be more between us?» and received 38:2,3 to 30 as the answer. The bakground for the question is a situation I am in with a friend I have had for 25 years, that I altso have been in love with. Now it is on the table that I probably have deeper feelings for him than he has...

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[jayne743]

Hi Telmina, I am fairly new to this forum, but having read quite a bit of Hilary’s work I would say it all depends on what you want to understand about this situation and what you want to happen. So here are a few ideas: What is the true nature of this relationship? Would it be wise to pursue a new relationship. What is the potential for marriage in this relationship?