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Hi Sam,
I see two possible interpretations for your "no fish" answer. 1) add more fish 2) remove the fish that are there in the tank.
Usually when I've received 44.4 it was a sign that I needed more fish, more earthiness, more karmic attachment, more timber in the oven to eventually fuel higher or more subtle things. An artist begins with crude materials and refines them into an art form. Nature begins also with crude materials and refines them into a person. People begin with crude materials and refine them into a relationship.
Bruce
Would you be so kind to elaborate your thought (like if you were talking to a kinder garden kid)?
I speak fluent kindergarten; it's my native tongue.
But are you asking me to color inside the lines I've given?
If there are any romantic undertones here at all, then the whole
meaning would change considerably and would become much more
complicated...
Hi Samgirl,
The way i see it 44:4 speaks of the need we all have to have a variety
of things and people in our lives. It's impossible we only hang around
with totally compatible people, who cover our each and every need.
The more people we know, the richer our lives are. Everyone has
something to contribute. And if we shut out everyone who is not a
'perfect match' for us, then we are certainly missing out on a lot of
things - both practical things, and more abstract ones. So since your
relationship with this person is not of a romatic nature, i'd say that
even if you don't feel you really love this person deeply, or whatever
else it is that you'd like to feel about this person, well, you don't really
need to. It's just impossible to feel the same towards everyone. There
is definitely some value in this person, for you, so i think the answer
is telling you that even if you don't feel deep involvement, that's fine.
Your attitude towards them, 13.4.5 > 22. You stay away and observe
them for quite a while, and perhaps you're waiting to see if they are
indeed 'an old friend', someone who you can really relate to. But in
the end you feel they're not, you just can't feel any substance there.
And that's fine. 22 is still very pleasing, and it also speaks of good and
gracious social manners. We do need this in our lives. If we are not
hermits living in a cave or something, then we do need to maintain
good social relationships, and be nice even to people we don't feel
100% compatible with.
So, i agree with you, your 44:4 answer does say 'nothing to deepen
here'. Also, i find the question strange in itself. These things do come
from the heart... You can't force your heart to feel connection with
someone. If, after spending so much time with this person, you still
can't feel it in you, then it's just not on. Forcing a 'true bond' is simply
impossible.
If there are any romantic undertones here at all, then the whole
meaning would change considerably and would become much more
complicated...
Let me ask you, and no need to answer me, just answer to yourself: what is missing in the exchange or relationship? That's where I'd start looking for the specific meaning of fish. But the thrust of 44 is the woman going after what she wants, not necessarily for the good of what or whom she pursues. Not a bad thing nor a good thing, just an image of what it is. That's what's missing.
I think perhaps you should go easy on yourself, and
not take this too seriously. In my opinion what you need here is not
force yourself to take it more seriously, but that you're just fine not
taking this too seriously.
So my question was about finding a way of how to jump to the pool.
With the fish?
To the fish?
Sam, I'm going to venture out on a limb, just based on our pleasant exchange in this thread. Diamonda said something about going easy on yourself, and that felt right to me. I think 44.4, in this case, is telling you to be more assertive, to not be as shy, to not apologize for who you are or the way you are, to be more bold, confident and possibly assertive. Maybe "nice" isn't enough.
Clarity,
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