Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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He says that he cares about me truly and that he just doesn't want to see me get hurt because that's all he can offer me for now.
Anyway, I asked yi what would happen next in our relationship and interactions between us.
37 unchanging was what I got.
I have thought about this for a while and I'm fine with accepting whatever the universe can offer me with this man for now. Maybe I'm not ready for a commitment myself and I should appreciate this for whatever it is right now.
I'm just still contemplating if even continuing this sexual relationship is healthy for me or not. I just don't want to get hurt again in the future .
Just an update guys.
We officially ended things between us last night.
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After giving up my body and being intimate with someone for so long, it is going to be rather difficult and challenging to cleanse myself of this hurt and sadness. .
..he could never be the man to offer me a fulfilling relationship.
I know this is an old thread, however there are interesting points, and Daeluin whom I guess haven't encountered before is come back on the forum with new comments.In the end, instant gratification is easy. You know what you're getting, it's right there, and putting an end to it sounds like a lot of trouble right now. But on the other hand, if all you're getting is some good sex, I kinda wonder what potentials exist for you should you pull out early.
Very true. I have been the captive of those recieved patterns for a long time, until I evolved. The exclusive romantic relationship, which sounds more like a myth to me, has no appeal any more. It's more of a cheesy teenage fantasy you find boring after a while.When one tries to get really deep into inner exploration, one begins dissolving one's own habits and patterns, working their way back to their original truths. Often this involves navigating and dissolving patterns received from outside sources that were significant enough to become patterns in one's self.
5 yang: Geese gradually proceed onto a mountain top. The wife does not conceive for three years, but in the end nothing defeats her. Good fortune.
Positive strength correctly balanced is like geese proceeding onto a mountaintop. The mountaintop is high and is centered; as strength gradually proceeds to central balance, heat dissipates, and true yin and yang, essence[jing] and feeling[qing], join together, no longer blocked by false yin and yang. This is like a wife not conceiving for three years but ultimately not being defeated. When the real returns and the false dissipates, the polar energies of true yin and yang join to form the elixir; then concentration takes place where it hadn't before -- that is to say, a bead of gold elixir is ingested into the belly. Then for the first time one knows one's destiny doesn't depend on heaven. What can compare to that fortune? This is gradual progress in which strength and flexibility merge.
I think the harms of casual sex are exaggerated. I am not saying that there is no pain or problems, but to present this as the source of illness and misery while putting the commited relationship in a high place is an absolute exaggeration.
How very odd. I mean one doesn't actually need someone there to have an orgasm, there's masturbation. Have these women actually never even bought themselves to orgasm? It just seems possibly a deficiency of imagination and exploration on their part. I mean everyone is different I guess but that seems a very weird statement. Also I don't understand what it has to do with anything on the thread?Many married women around me haven't experienced the orgasm a single time in their lives. T
How much figuring out does it take! We have hands and genitals and sensations and most youngsters will explore all those things. It's not like we need a manual. Well I can't go into too much detail...without getting graphic but I mean it's the same for girls as it for boys. We all have hands and sensations. The idea a girl or a woman doesn't know what an orgasm is without a man showing up is very weird to me. I'm sure there's a good deal of individual difference in this area it's just Mary's comment struck me as strange in this day and age. The idea she knew all these married women who never had an orgasm and I wasn't sure where marriage came into the fact they hadn't had an orgasm. There's shops full of sophisticated gadgets to provide those if the hands aren't enough...or maybe there aren't where Mary lives.In my experience this isn't uncommon at all. If someone hasn't experienced something how would they go about figuring out how to experience it?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).