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Aww that sounds kinda nice. But I want more than just blissful moments or basically one night stands. Which is what that brings to mind for me when I hear “moments.” Sounds fleeting and superficial. Although I don’t find that very joyful. Like no one I can count on? I already did the unconventional thing and it’s not for me at all. Trying not to feel sad & depressed about this. I have so much to offer and maybe I just missed it all and will be alone forever / the rest of my life. Maybe I just made too many mistakesHello Ichinglover;
I'm not sure if 61.2 to 42 indicates marriage or any conventional relationship, but it clearly talks about people with affinity who share joyful moments. And it is blissful (42).
Thank you so much for explaining further. I appreciate it. I understand what you’re seeing better now. It’s not as much as I’d hoped but not as bad either. I wonder if there is something in me that still needs to be healed or changed for me to marry again. Maybe I should try to formulate a question that addresses that to see if it’s an issue. I get so nervous asking questions. I want to get it right. Any suggestions? Mèsi anpil for your thoughts. I appreciate it!Oh dear Ichinglover I don't think this line refers to a "one night stand" at all.
There are other lines for that. I can think of 44.6:
"Coupling with your horns/shame/not a mistake"
or maybe 35.6: "Advancing with your horns/ holding fast, use this to subjugate the city/ Danger, good fortune, not a mistake./ Constancy: shame."
Though this is not the only way to interpret those lines, either.
61.2 is the line of inner affinity that may not be visible in the outer world. The heron calls her young in the dark, the latter hears and responds. The two don't see each other but recognize the voices. It is about a special, natural bound like that of the heron and her child. Here one has a good wine, a metaphor for joy, she (he) wants to share with the other out of love not for receiving something in return.
Then why didn't I know if it led to marriage or something conventional? Because not the line nor the hexagrams talk about the outer form or special roles like that of 37 (family). It doesn't mean that the relationship can't lead to marriage. I just don't know. And unconventional doesn't equate to casual which is a new norm or convention itself.
As I see it, the answer can be interpreted in 2 ways:and asked Yi “what should I do to get married again”
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