Clarity,
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London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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It would be nice to find a man who treats me well and sees me as something more than a sex toy. I thought this guy was different. Guess even the nice guys can be jerks.
True. It's not so much that they see me as a sex partner or what have you, I think it's how I react to that.i guess you should be worried when a guy do NOT see you as a sex toy (partner, rather). all the other stuff will come in time ( if ever )
If this kind of comment were made about women, it would be considered unacceptably offensive. I'm personally offended by your generalizations about how all men are evil, wicked, not to be trusted. Utter trash.
True. It's not so much that they see me as a sex partner or what have you, I think it's how I react to that.
*sigh*
Trying to take more responsibility for my actions and see where i am at fault. I know I am doing something wrong.
True. It's not so much that they see me as a sex partner or what have you, I think it's how I react to that.
*sigh*
Trying to take more responsibility for my actions and see where i am at fault. I know I am doing something wrong.
I asked "what does this person want me to do?" and received hex 1.5.6>34 as my answer.
I am confused because there is no commitment between us and I don't want to push for one out of fear of losing his friendship. Also, we live a good distance from each other, so asking for a commitment seems a bit much....not that I wouldn't like one, but I don't want to push for something if he is not comfortable with that.
how does he feel about me?
hex 11 unchanging
does he feel any sort of attachment towards me?
hex 58.3.4>5
Is he using me?
1.1.3.4.6>29
That would make sense because it ties into an earlier reading I did where I got a hex 7 unchanging in regards to whether or not I needed to take a leadership role in this situation.
Thank you, WillowFox! I had the suspicion that was what was going on but wasn't sure and I honestly didn't know how to ask without putting him on the defensive or possibly losing his friendship.
Guess I have some thinking to do. I don't want to be used at all. I am too good for that.
He seems to be pulling back from me a bit so maybe this arrangement is not sitting too well with him. That or he has a new girl to play with. I will put him on the back burner for now. I have other things to deal with and being a second class mare in a stable of other mares is so not on my agenda.
It would be nice to find a man who treats me well and sees me as something more than a sex toy. I thought this guy was different. Guess even the nice guys can be jerks.
True. It's not so much that they see me as a sex partner or what have you, I think it's how I react to that.
*sigh*
Trying to take more responsibility for my actions and see where i am at fault. I know I am doing something wrong.
Man are simple beings. We see boobs, legs and back. If you are good on that and manage add some personality on top, you became an extraordinary woman, if not, you are a woman. We are not evil, just simple ... once you understand that you will react properly.
heh, hope it helps
I asked what steps I should take next in this situations and received 54.2.6>21
That supports my plan to step back, look at this situation from a larger perspective (line 2) and rely on my inner abilities to give myself what I need instead of looking for it in places where it doesn't exist (line 6) in order to overcome this "small" hurdle (hex 21).
Obviously it's not good to use power just to show or use it, but it's good to have it when you need it (7).
What's interesting to me is that you don't demonstrate that kind of power, but a different power.
My friend and I had a talk and apparently he is still in love with an ex. He is a really sweet guy and I don't think he means me any harm or even wishes to use me, he is just not really able to feel anything towards another person in that way right now.
Well, not much here, except passion when you are together, and that's it.
Thanks, Chuckles, for following up here.
From your post I gather that the original 1.5,6-34 plays multiple roles, pertaining to you taking command of your life and choices, not being that people pleaser you felt you were supposed to be, and it also showed his lack of power in this scenario. He seems to drift with no resolve, only regrets, and you feel sorry for him. The relief that you can offer is that of temporary relief, which would likely be spent mothering him (a form of topping him). It's a needy situation, or has been. Seems you're getting a good handle on it.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).