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I have trouble reading what's going on in my life right now. I think something really good might be happening but I'm so dismissive of an idea of me feeling happy or in love. I'm a little confused - I met this great person but it feels like staring into a mirror. If I commit I know we'll get on forever. So I asked yi 'am I in love?'
 

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Also I just casted about 'the person' to be sure I can commit to this. 'Is he committed' - 63.3.5 to 43 and got one last night for 'where does he stand' 63.3. Its so very interesting that yi's giving me the same hexagram. What do you people this about this? I read interpretations myself but just would like to hear yours without me sharing mine as it might affect your answers. I'm going to meet him in a moment - want to act correctly to yi. Please share your brains!
 

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Can I please get some feedback on why no one is leaving any comments? Perhaps that was a really silly question cast? Am I a ghost?
 

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People will reply when they find free time and have an idea about your result. We are volunteers and not professionals so it may be that people are currently busy with their own stuff.
It was not a silly question btw. Best regards.
 

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Oh I didn't mean to be too demanding. I just saw all other questions getting some comments so grew a little anxious about it! Whether the answer is visible at all and stuff... Thanks for the reassurance!
 

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Oh I didn't mean to be too demanding. I just saw all other questions getting some comments so grew a little anxious about it! Whether the answer is visible at all and stuff... Thanks for the reassurance!

People tend to answer quickly when they have experience with the specific result in context of the question or a similar question. But if this is not the case it may take longer to receive an answer. Unfortunately it also may sometimes happen that nobody answers -- it happened to me as well. Just push the thread then from time to time.
In the meantime you could use the hexagram search and try to figure it out by yourself : https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/hexsearch/
Often you will find in the archives threads of people who received the same result in a similar context.
 

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36.6.14 'Be patient and let things unfold', is my first response to this. 'Get a sense of perspective.' You don't need to 'commit' to someone at such an early stage, nor can you know all the answers about how things might develop in this relationship. Don't 'push', just relax a bit and let things progress in their natural way, whatever that means.
 

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36.6.14 'Be patient and let things unfold', is my first response to this


Must be typo ? She got 34.6

I have trouble reading what's going on in my life right now. I think something really good might be happening but I'm so dismissive of an idea of me feeling happy or in love. I'm a little confused - I met this great person but it feels like staring into a mirror. If I commit I know we'll get on forever. So I asked yi 'am I in love?'


If you commit you know you'll get on forever ? :confused: How do you know ? Anyway the line shows a ram stuck in a hedge neither able to advance or retreat so I think it's probably not the time to try to get anywhere, either advancing or retreating. The idea is more just to let things go a little and then you can see a better signal of direction. Now is not the time to be forcing any direction.


I don't know if 'in love' is a defined state like being in the bath or not being in the bath but anyway whatever Yi is saying you are a bit tangled up right now so stop pushing for definitions. You know if you imagine getting caught up in a tangle of bushes, forcing forwards won't work so you have to gently ease yourself free. I'd think here this line might show that due to a rush to define something you got yourself stuck somehow ?


Also I just casted about 'the person' to be sure I can commit to this. 'Is he committed' - 63.3.5 to 43 and got one last night for 'where does he stand' 63.3. Its so very interesting that yi's giving me the same hexagram. What do you people this about this? I read interpretations myself but just would like to hear yours without me sharing mine as it might affect your answers. I'm going to meet him in a moment - want to act correctly to yi. Please share your brains!


Doesn't work like that as your interpretation is more important than ours and it's not a question of affecting our answers. Besides offering your own interpretation is essential for any useful exchange here. See link in my signature.

To me it looks like a long way to go before he gets to the point of commitment. However I don't much believe in telling you what he is thinking as the only person with any actual authority or indeed accuracy to tell you this is him himself.

63.3.5 changes to 24 not 43 BTW


You need to talk to him maybe more than you need to talk to the I Ching ?


What was your interpretation ?
 
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other thoughts. Re the sensation of being 'in love' it could well feel like 34.6 as in you're stuck there, don't know what to do as in can't live with someone but can't live without them either.



Also I just casted about 'the person' to be sure I can commit to this. 'Is he committed' - 63.3.5 to 43 and got one last night for 'where does he stand' 63.3. Its so very interesting that yi's giving me the same hexagram. What do you people this about this? I read interpretations myself but just would like to hear yours without me sharing mine as it might affect your answers. I'm going to meet him in a moment - want to act correctly to yi. Please share your brains!


Re 63.3 it could signify he's committed in that the river has been crossed but this line says the troubles don't end there. There's all sort of issues and problems that keep arising so that only those with strength of character can hope to push through. So it looks like it costs a lot for this to be a committed relationship and yet line 5 says big offerings aren't needed.


I wonder if it's better if you don't try to make this a 'big thing' all at once. maybe there are issues to be sorted out and so on so patience is needed.
 

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Oh, I see how it works now! Okay, I'll share - I was too anxious to share before hah.I read many times that when you get the sixth line, it means that 'a thing' is at the end of that following hexagram might be influencing. I was never too sure how to take these influences. 34.6 > 14 where 14 seems very overwhelming, which is exactly how I felt. Regards 63.3.5 again, the hex in my app is called 'after completion' where reading that I again, got worried that whatever I had going on will suddenly end. Anyways, if I take the interpretations literally 63.3 'Do not trust little men' and 63.5 'Western neighbour receives blessings for his genuine sacrifice' - which both literally apply in my context (it's about my short neighbour two streets west). 63.3 that I got before might mean that he was not trustworthy before as opposed to now where 63.5 supports the reading - we fell out over both of us not being open to each other few weeks. It seemed to me that I was overcomplicating everything. Now, it seems more like something about us having trouble being open with each other but we have addressed that and working on it - thus it is hard work as 63.3 suggests.
 

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Trojina, it seems exactly what you wrote! I think in that sense 63.3.5 it needs time - problems are solved over time without much effort, naturally?! I hope.
 

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