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stevev said:Readers, sitters, interpreters & diviners, lets get out the ouji, wiji, wooji [spell checker couldn‘t help] board.
The IChing is a game and a joke, it used to be a good game and a funny joke, what happened ?
bruce_g said:You're good at what you do.
jesed said:[Ewald
Well done¡¡¡
Given that the final hexagram that Moonrise got was from 35. Progress, I highly doubt that she did.jesed said:Therefore, Ewald helped to again avoid the issue.
Indeed.rosada said:NOT "Blast the seeker with the full truth of what a complete f**k up they've been." Not that anyone here did that, but why not give the full truth - no matter how harsh - if it's the truth? Because it wont get through! When my feelings are hurting I instinctivly put up walls and cling to my former opinions. It's not intentional. I don't even realize I'm doing it.
ewald said:In order to "get it," the impossible needs to happen: the unconscious needs to become conscious. These feelings of that traumatic event or situation, that one is trying very hard to surpress (keep in the unconscious) need to be experienced consciously. Then the unreality of that situation is realized, and the blockage dissolves. Then the person really gets it.
To get to this point, it is important to understand yourself regarding the issue.
Do you mean projection? With transference a particular object relation (an abusive parent relationship for instance) is projected onto a person (like a therapist), while projection is more general, where also feelings (like being stuck) are "seen" on people where they aren't there.autumn said:If the problem is serious enough, then most will not be capable of doing this. If they don't get it right away, and return with the same issue after a period of thoughtful self-examination, then what begins to happen is transference.
That sounds like an attempt to let go of the situation."How do I say goodbye in a nice way?"
The hardest thing is to stand by and do nothing, while you'd wish you could help, but that is really all you can do.You don't uderstand that by simply, casually saying to someone "oh just get over it" is insulting because you are disregarding me, not seeing me and my issue and not respectng that for me it is not so easy to "just get over it".
In such a state, Lightangel's trying to save the situation by supporting Autumn, is not felt as supportive to Moonrise, but as siding and an attack. That is why I interfered. The way Lightangel responded to that of course didn't exactly inspire more trust in Moonrise, but reinforced her worst fears about this situation.
I think you're right.hilary said:Leaving all rights and wrongs aside, it's been my experience that online conversations about one another's psychological issues never go well.
lightofreason said:you guys need to do more work in understanding the IC+ focus through the Emotional IC work and supplement your 'coin toss' interpretations with considering the emotional welfare of the person asking the questions
moonrise said:I have my own intelligence and I am using it to understand myself - and I don't need any kind of "help" from some imaginary wannabe therapists here! This is a Yi Jing forum, help me intepret the Yi Jing otherwise stay out! I have been clear about this many times and no one seems to consider it. It is disrepectful.
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