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ChangingOne

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Hi everyone,

Things have been going well in my current relationship but we live in different parts of the country. I have wanted to move for years but didn’t have a calling to a particular place and always thought if I did move it would be with someone rather than upping sticks and being on my own somewhere new. I asked what the outcome would be if I relocated to live with my partner and got 4.2 changing to 23. I have seen people talking about a student teacher relationship and working out who you are in the scenario. I have a difficult family life with strained relationships, I note it talks about taking ownership of the household, could this be something to do with that?
Any thoughts on whether this is more positive or negative? Generally, I’m aware that it might be saying it’s not something you can know until you do it..
 

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The line looks positive for your question. I have found this line tends to mean bringing a certain amount of spaciousness and openness to the relationship. It could also mean that if you move the focus will mostly be on the relationship/home/inner world (for example, I’m not sure what your job prospects are out there or what community would be like for you). You received a nice line for what you’re asking about. I think having very human expectations and patience will go long way.
 

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I looked back at when I cast this and one thing I’ll say is that it did involve immaturity and me being frustrated by it. I think there is a fresh, open innocence to this line, just also remember that sweet things can be frustrating too. So how do we approach it, can we ask for help (since there will be things up ahead that aren’t as simple as the initial decision.) It’s still a nice line and I think 23 resulting is about focus. If you make that choice, be 100% where you are, leave the past behind.
 
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4.2 says to me that you know how to handle where you live right now but you are looking for a broader experience.
23. Splitting Apart suggests moving would give you a chance to release old warn out patterns.

It reads to me as if to say that you are motivated by a feeling it's time to clear out the closets, get rid of old clothes and connections but it doesn't seem to say what your new life would be. Also 4.2 seems to say that you're doing pretty well where you are right now, so to be cautious about jumping into a whole new situation where you may not know the ropes or have the support you have now. Together I think you should start where you are now trimming down to make a move easier but also watch to see if new paths don't open up as you're doing this. You may find that after simplifying your life as it is you find your interests take you off in as yet unseen directions.
 

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Sounds like a good omen: you strip away the old place, then there is a woman, a youth & a home.
 

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