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Wow! This is a great read and thank you for the update!Just wanted to post an update on this as I realised I didn’t reply! My current situation still stands, I still haven’t moved but I know now that I definitely want to. It’s not an easy move though, I have A LOT of responsibilities at home and a very difficult relationship with immediate family who I see everyday due to illness and having to help out! With this looking like it won’t ever improve, I rather feel as though I’m abandoning those that need me so I don’t feel good about wanting to move on the whole. My partner and I are now wanting to try for a baby and feel it would be best we live together once I’m pregnant so this will ultimately decide the timings for us. I still haven’t communicated my want to move with immediate family. I need to, but again it’s complicated and frankly I’m terrified what their reaction will be (more so one particular member of the family who suffers with mental health issues and depends on me). Ultimately the reading seemed positive on the whole and I thank you all for your replies. I will post an update here once my situation changes.
This actually makes a lot of sense to me, if I move it wouldn’t just be more difficult to see my family but I might be cut out of the family entirely. I mean, I’m only going to be an hour and a half away by train but one family member in particular is likely to shut me out entirely because they won’t want me to go and because they see me everyday and rely on me everyday. It’s funny I actually didn’t realise at the time of reading that this line was telling me to plan for how I can make this work before doing it, but that’s exactly what my partner and I have started doing. We anticipate the move will happen around a year from now, we don’t know exactly when I’ll get pregnant but this gives me the time I need to try and rename things back home such as care etc. I will definitely ask the I Ching again and see if anything has changed.Re-reading this I realized my first interpretation wasn't really answering the question you asked.
You asked:
What would the outcome be if I relocated to live with my partner?
I saw your answer, 4.2 - 23, as describing your current situation as livable and worried that changing to 23 meant relocating would lead to a Collapse of some sort. After giving this a second look I think 4.2 is describing what your situation would be if you relocate - that is, I think it's saying that if you relocate you have what it takes to set up housekeeping, rather than it being any comment about your current housing. If that's the case then I think changing to 23 is emphasizing how such a move would create a total change in how you connect with your family. Not to say you couldn't make it on your own but 4.2 is such a young innocent soul, really unprepared for the harsher realities of life, that getting this line might be urging you to plan more specifically how you would manage before you burn any bridges.
Perhaps there are questions you could put to the I Ching to help making your move less stressful. Like, "What should be my attitude about moving at this time?" If you get 5.4 you'll know it's time to go!!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).