Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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43 stands up in front of the king and demands attention (which does seem relevant since the whole point is attention).So I asked Yi "what is the effect X meds are having on my mood?"
43.1.6>44
this seems more like a description of my situation? related to condition rather than meds
Yes do please prioritise these. You do have a disability, it has a huge impact on your life and so you should have both financial help and housing. Perhaps you could get a place of your own...and that would reflect the 53.5 in that reading also.The medication helps somewhat with this problem...my counselor has suggested getting on disability or looking into housing assistance.
I don't class that as a very serious lie. I mean I know zero cats who ever died from eating indoor plants. Indeed I know zero cats who eat indoor plants so I think the onus is on them to find out what is so wrong with their cat's diet that it needs to eat plants Has their cat eaten one of your plants and been ill or died? Is that why it's so serious?The lie was quite serious in retrospect as it was not researching which plants were toxic to cats, since they have a cat who eats plants. In moments of stress I tend to dissociate and sometimes fib bc of not really thinking, or a panic reaction. It has been misunderstood before, even when it was me who came forward and clarified. Its not an easy thing to change as it is a trigger reaction from childhood where mistakes were punished with physical beating. I do not lie intentionally and try to correct immediately but of course most people cannot be expected to accommodate/understand this.
They sound neurotic. You can't keep a cat in one room. Who are these people, women or men and how many of them?I cast 24.1.5>8 for meeting with them, then apologized sincerely and asked for a second chance. It seemed friendly.
However now they are being increasingly severe.
I am trying to become more above ground but facing many fears and uncomfortable sacrifices, now all my plants have to be moved elsewhere, cat is not allowed out of my room etc. They keep going into my room and moving things but are upset about me having anything outside my room. I have to essentially live the same way they do to the letter.
Don't know what the questions were, but I don't like the sound of it.Readings around this have been
5.3>60
(Waiting in mud)
52.4>56
I don't think getting this support amounts to failure at all, it's common sense. Moreover having a stable source of support, however basic, allows you to start live a better life, develop more of your art and so on. You can't do that with constant stress and chaos.Trojina, yes I am going to have my support worker help me begin the process this week. My ego is protesting with all sorts of stories about individual failure. However I cannot go on pretending to have abilities I do not, or will end homeless/in hospital. It may happen anyways. As long as my cat and plants can find good homes I will accept this.
I didn't say they weren't I saidSome plants are toxic to pets.
I'm saying it's not common. I mean I know zero cats who ever died from eating indoor plants. Indeed I know zero cats who eat indoor plants
One of their cafs chomped a plant. Didn't get sick though. He is young and still attacking/chewing.I don't class that as a very serious lie. I mean I know zero cats who ever died from eating indoor plants. Indeed I know zero cats who eat indoor plants so I think the onus is on them to find out what is so wrong with their cat's diet that it needs to eat plants Has their cat eaten one of your plants and been ill or died? Is that why it's so serious?
That situation was more abusive, was with my ex. But not to the plants and cat they were happy there. If I end up homeless she will probably be willing to take the cat.They sound neurotic. You can't keep a cat in one room. Who are these people, women or men and how many of them?
Is there any chance you could return where you were before the move?
Yes, realizing that. I have pretended to not be disabled for a long time so its just a matter of coming to terms with reality.I don't think getting this support amounts to failure at all, it's common sense. Moreover having a stable source of support, however basic, allows you to start live a better life, develop more of your art and so on. You can't do that with constant stress and chaos.
They still are keeping some stuff in the room that is mine. I thought my room would be off limits but it turns out they see the whole space as still theirs to control. It is not what I thought it would be at all.It sounds awful. As lies go not researching whether your plants hurt cats hardly seems massive though if their cat was sick or died because of it I suppose it's a different matter. Also they cannot enter your room and move things without permission! Absolutely not, that's a violation! It sounds like an abusive situation.
See I proposed this or keeping them in my room. But it is a no, they insist all plants be removed from the house immediately.Some plants are toxic to pets. Cats, dogs. So are chocolate and onions and so on. Whether it will kill them or just upset their stomachs probably depends on what it is, how much they eat, and so on.
There may or may not be something wrong with the cat's diet. Maybe there is and it could/should be fixed. Maybe there is and it can't be fixed. (For instance mine had to be on a prescription diet he didn't like, and so he'd go around chewing the draperies and so forth because while he was getting calories he felt like he wasn't getting anything he considered food. That wasn't fixable, unfortunately.)
I don't know much about it but don't cats just have an instinct? They sell pots of greens for cats for a reason. I don't get them for mine but I've seen them in stores.
Yes, I don't see much hope for "cat is not allowed in room." Cat will redouble efforts. Cat will probably win. Would be nice if this is a lazy cat!
But regardless, I know how much you love your plants. Um...fishing for ideas...any way the toxic ones could be hung from the ceiling? Would be harder to take care of them that way, though.
My intuition! when moving here I had a bad feeling.46.6 sounds promising but quite daunting. Wonder if 21.3's "poison" is your feelings about assistance? Trojina is right, try your best not to feel like that. No ideas about 21.6 - is there something you aren't listening to?
I didn't say they weren't I said
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I'm saying it's not common
...I'm afraid I see their point about these things.I come from your perspective on the plants. Their cats did not get sick or die. It is just that they see every mistake as what "could" happen like if I left the door unlocked for a few minutes while grabbing something, someone could get in and harm the cats, if my cat escapes before being properly introduced they could get into a cat fight and hurt each other....they do profess to have anxiety and all these rules/reactions are being attributed to that.
Sloppy quoting. I should have edited that part out. It wasn't anything I went on to talk about.The idea that leaving the door unlocked...
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).