Clarity,
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I was just never sure whether this person is sincere with me.
I was paranoid at some point. Because well we are living far away from each other.
And all I have to trust is his own words.
So. Before I got 30 unchanging - which I tried to take as "to clarify" - and then this casting came out.
Meanwhile - I just got detached, as to feel safe whatever the person might be in reailty.
And here is what I got.
There is always a choice somewhere. It’s not necessarily ‘what to do’, of course – there may not be anything to be done, or you may not have*much meaningful choice in your actions. But you’re still consulting Yi about a choice – maybe how to be with the thing, how to think about it, how to relate to*it…
I really wanted to find out what Yi sees in this person. Who is X inside, an insight into his moral qualities. By that i would imply gradation from noble man to villain as Yi has clear spectrum on that.
9.4 to 1.
What do you think?
I mean thing with sociopathy - talking and being with such people really seems too good to be true at first. which is all there...I mean I met real sociopaths before 100% so after some personal drama - I know how to spot them. at least some major pointers....but then again...unless you get bruised - you will never know...
I think i need to stay away from that person...Or will try to ask more questions like you suggested about my relation or my choice about X.
Looking for that quote at random found
http://notsalmon.com/2014/01/31/goo...-need-play-detective-prince-harming-syndrome/
So next time you speak tell him you don't feel safe enough and see what he says.
In looking for your 4 answer I see numerous threads about this person like this one http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?22478-41-unchanging and there's been so many on this same person.
I came across a quote ....something like 'relationships are built on trust. if you have to do detective work it's time to walk away'.
You are wasting energy on this. If you need more reassurance then he has to give it to you enough so that you feel safe to carry on...otherwise this is just using your life up. Long distance relationships are pretty hard to conduct even with trust.
...But the more I use - the more I am entrapped like you said away from real situation...So yes, guess it's time to detach...At some point we all need someone,,,but not at the expense of common sense and safety or security...right...
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).