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simon_uk said:didnt really understand a lot of the information you sent me Chris, nor did I really understand the method. However, I asked a question and chose the answers I thought related to what I was asking.
I received 58 Changing to 47
Not really sure what it means or what I am doing.
The question was whether we will be back together again.
simon_uk said:Ok regarding my feelings Chris
I got 10 changing to 1
I answered the three questions on the left. The three on the right I left as they were? Is this right?
Not sure how I can answer about her feelings though? think I am missing the point?
simon_uk said:Ok I think I got it Chris. Sorry
For me I got
Hex 59 No change
Hex 51 No Change
lightofreason said:Ok - we can refine it a bit more - if these are right then we have:
010011 (59) (R you sure? I assume changing line 3? - the second three lines should be the same as the first three?)
lightofreason said:You appear to see yourself as a protector/conservator/preserver and so a focus in containment/control (if 59 is right) OR as an auditor/umpire/cultivator and so focused on being/becoming influencial (if 57 is right) You lack trust in others overall but once 'within' your boundary you are a provider of the necessities of life etc - ever done any teaching?
lightofreason said:You appear to see her as more of a 'engineering' (inventor/debator/designer/architect etc) type. (thunder = enlightenment, surprise, shock, sudden)
lightofreason said:Emotionally, the focus in you comes out of rejection/rejecting (all part of the protector focus) and for her the focus is on surprise etc Is she cerebral? She lacks trust in her self overall. (given this, there is an attraction to isolation when stressed, run n hide, and a degree of emotional "avarice", can appear to be insensitive)
lightofreason said:Based on what you have given, the common ground can be 'joy' oriented (10) or 'heaven' oriented (01). Intense stuff. Both reflect Artisan dynamics - risk taking, independence driven, can be too excitable - and expensive.
lightofreason said:SO - if you want her back she needs to 'see' something that elicits resonance and a 'need' to come back, a 'want' to come back. OTOH, if you see little in her other than lust for her - then forget it and move on (yeh I know, difficult to do! ;-))
lightofreason said:Do you understand emotional transference? The intent is to elicit a resonance of an emotion in the other person where the emotion originates in you.
simon_uk said:....I dont wish to make hard work for myself and fight an uphill battle if we ever do get back together. I just want a harmonious life with a girl I adore.
I will try not to consult the oracle for a while now because I fear messing things up for myself and her.
I hope you dont mind my asking questions? I must admit your science is very confucing but fascinating nontheless.
Well, of course- if you believe in free will, then each time you make a choice you change your future. Say you plan to drive to the dentist, but instead of turning left, you choose to turn right, so you end up somewhere else. If it was very important to you to go to the dentist, then you will have experiences from taking the right turn that are uncomfortable or painful (say you hit a pothole, or your teeth start hurting), and you will end up back where you started. But your choices always change the future. In this analogy of going to dentist, your choices were to go there by the most direct route or to try to avoid going to the dentist by making wrong turns. Right now, you're going through something necessary but uncomfortable (like going to the dentist), and your choices are to take the most direct route there (accept the present moment), or to fight it and to start taking wrong turns (by obsessing, withdrawing from other people, trying to manipulate her to come back). If you fight what you don't want in this experience, then you circumvent the most direct path. Your readings are giving you a picture of where you are right now, and what's intended for you in your most direct path. Luckily, you are being shown something good. So, you don't to start making wrong turns right now.simon_uk said:YOu said in a previous post that I could change the future? How would this happen? Do you mean by keep asking the same questions or by my emotional state?
What is this Jedi Mind trick thing? Is this really necessary? Is this something you passed out a Star Wars convention to advise those with pocket protectors how to pick up chicks? How about just what the hexagrams mean, and how the trigrams go back to the bonding binding stuff, so he can gain a focal point in his mind? I am sorry, you have to be very patient with Chris. He has good information underneath this *stuff*.simon_uk said:Quote:
Originally Posted by lightofreason
Do you understand emotional transference? The intent is to elicit a resonance of an emotion in the other person where the emotion originates in you.
Chris. I am not sure if this is something I can do Chris, unless you are talking about if and when we reconnect?
That is a good reading. I want to say this:simon_uk said:Autumn
I know you said I should take a break for now but I just felt like I understood your question more so I inquired one last time. I promise this will be the last for a while now. I askedIn the long run (assuming she comes back to me) Would this relationship be beneficial to my emotional well being or detrimental. The result 188.8.131.52 Changing to 32
autumn said:What is this Jedi Mind trick thing? Is this really necessary? Is this something you passed out a Star Wars convention to advise those with pocket protectors how to pick up chicks? How about just what the hexagrams mean, and how the trigrams go back to the bonding binding stuff, so he can gain a focal point in his mind? I am sorry, you have to be very patient with Chris. He has good information underneath this *stuff*.
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