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I guess I don't really understand your question - and maybe not the technology either? To me it sounds like you're saying you rejected someone on an internet dating app, and now you're wondering how they'll respond?ve told her and I backed away by saying something like "whoops! wrong window" and I nervously cast an hexagram to know what it'll do.
I guess I don't really understand your question - and maybe not the technology either? To me it sounds like you're saying you rejected someone on an internet dating app, and now you're wondering how they'll respond?
If you can clarity what you mean, that would be helpful, at least for me.
Yep. This seems to be the response, or maybe she said, 'hmm, he's not interested in me, so I'm going to look for someone who is'.she would see through my bs
You don't get the tinder environment. The one who cares the least wins. Millenials are messed up in the head. If you show interest, it's game over you're a thirsty looser. The truth is that she is absolutely stunning and I WANT HERYep. This seems to be the response, or maybe she said, 'hmm, he's not interested in me, so I'm going to look for someone who is'.
And so do you really think that bs-ing her, and rejecting her, and playing games with her is what the Yi is advising you here?... that she is absolutely stunning and I WANT HER ....
Girls I respect and treat right put me in the friend-zone because I'm so nice. Girls I treat like garbage text me desperately. If I could find a girl that likes being treated well and appreciates how much I care for her that'd be a nice change of pace in my opinion. I'm sick and tired of this bizarro world where things only works backwards...And so do you really think that bs-ing her, and rejecting her, and playing games with her is what the Yi is advising you here?
So, just decide to not be in it anymore!It does exhausts me to be in this superficial environment ....
you need to have fire juggling pandas on unicycles as an opener to "stand out".
22.1.2.3.4.5.6 > 47It does exhausts me to be in this superficial environment
THISThe longer that you live,
the more you will realize that people who are impressed by such things.....
are not worth having.
(mostly because it is about their vanity, and which of their friends you will impress.)
There is some truth to the statement that chicks dig jerks. But it is only some of them, and they are not worth inviting into your life.
Vagabond, I've given you my sense of the reading, as have others here. But it seems you keep falling back to a response and way of thinking that's based on internet BS.What else do you need!" It sounds like a potted plant to be honest, just more expensive and annoying...
Hi vagabond303,
this reading is about beauty. Maybe the girl's beauty, maybe your own way to behave. The lines of this reading also talk about wooing, and also having suitors.
22 and 47 belong together, as they are opposite hexagrams. In 22 there is an outward shining. In 47, you are confined, up to yourself.
You are writing about a conflict: You are attracted by some girl's beauty, but you are not sure if you are attractive enough. I think the 22 reading gives you a general advice: Your small roll of silk will be good enough (if your intentions are honest). And all these lines are good to meditate on - about your own beauty as well, about being elegant, and beautiful, and well-mannered.
All these changing lines might say that things will change completely, or that it is you who will change completely, or who needs to change. I think that it is 47 which shows you a way out: to meditate, to stay within yourself, to calm down, to see your confinement. Be your own person. Then there is no need to try and manipulate someone.
All the best
Mandarine
Vagabond, I've given you my sense of the reading, as have others here. But it seems you keep falling back to a response and way of thinking that's based on internet BS.
Simply put - if you don't like playing the game, or you don't think it's worth it, then don't keep playing the game! But you keep acting more like a gambling addict: "I know I shouldn't do this, but I can't help myself - and I'll keep chasing after people who are not really interested in me, and I'll keep blaming them for my failures!'
For example, what the MGTOW community is saying is nonsense, but for some reason it is what you keep returning to for answers.
Believe me, I know all too well what it's like to be tossed about by my own desires! - I wasted a lot of time in my lift chasing after people who were either not interested me or were not good for me - and at the same time, I also spent a lot of time ignoring people who were interested and better for me.
So, maybe it's just a question of time, and experience before you might consider what the Yi and what we are saying here.
Best, D
Whatt about hexs with all lines changing though? Besisdes 1 and 2, do any of those have special meanings?
All lines change because that is the only way to derive that 2nd hex.Whatt about hexs with all lines changing though?
Besisdes 1 and 2, do any of those have special meanings?
The response you get is the response you get. It is much less common to have many or all lines moving, when compared to only a few or no lines moving - but don't let that distract you from the answer and it's meaning!Whatt about hexs with all lines changing though? Besisdes 1 and 2, do any of those have special meanings?
I do not think you are getting the message here.When you think about it, a dried up lake is pretty much the shallowest body of water possible lol
I do not think you are getting the message here.
The dried up lake is not this girl and really has nothing to do with this girl, but it is about your attitude and how you're going about this whole thing - like how you say you want something that is not superfical, but then demanding that a girl pay attention to you just because you fnd her 'stunning' - and that she should message you even when you told her you're not interested in her! But maybe this is something you'll only be able to learn with time ....
To continue to put here down is part of what is draining. And because she wasn't attracted to you and doesn't want to play your games is not what the Yi is pointing to as the problem.
Consider too, with Tinder they think that 50-75% of the people on there are already with someone, and that a third of the men are married! Add to this that only about 20% of the women ever respond to someone they're matched with, and only about 7% of the men do! So, even setting aside how shallow your own approach seems to be, you are pretty much in an environment that treats dating and connection with others like a game show!
But for you to continue to take part in it, and then be pissed at the results, well .... that seems to be the drained lake, and it has nothing to do with the cute women. And have you considered another dating app, maybe one that's based on compatability and shared interests, and not mainly on looks?
d.
Yes, I am 'interpreting' your words because that's what we do when we read what someone else has written. But if you feel I am misinterpreting - or not understanding what you said' please feel free to correct me.because you're interpreting my words and the situation however you feel like and are building this strawman so you can attack it. Who hurt you?
My whole point was that women love, attention and likes compliments but it has to feel like it's earned. If you come off too strong or shower a girl with compliments she'll go away.Yes, I am 'interpreting' your words because that's what we do when we read what someone else has written. But if you feel I am misinterpreting - or not understanding what you said' please feel free to correct me.
I am trying to say that I don't think the issue is about this woman or what you think she's done, or about tinder, or what the MGTOW community says or thinks - and it certainly has nothing to do with my 'hurt', whatever the hell that has to do with it. I think the 'drained lake' is perhaps a great deal closer to home than all that.
Vagabond, I apologize if I've come across as too judgemental. You asked a spefiic question - how will this one girl respond to you 'taking back' your compliment of her - and I think you got your answer: she did not respond and did not show any further interest in you.My whole point was that women love, attention and likes compliments but it has to feel like it's earned. If you come off too strong or shower a girl with compliments she'll go away.
Clarity,
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