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oceangirl

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Relevant to this relationship in this thread - https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?24790-Progress-Hex-59-5-gt-4

Please show me a picture of this being the final ending to our relationship

Hexagram 49.1.5>62

I look at the Radical Change as one within myself - Line 1 I've let go of something that I just couldn't change and Line 5 is the changes I make within myself because of all this

Hexagram 62 - there is little I can do at this time but progress with what I can do.
 

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Relevant to this relationship in this thread - https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?24790-Progress-Hex-59-5-gt-4

Please show me a picture of this being the final ending to our relationship

Hexagram 49.1.5>62

I look at the Radical Change as one within myself - Line 1 I've let go of something that I just couldn't change and Line 5 is the changes I make within myself because of all this

Hexagram 62 - there is little I can do at this time but progress with what I can do.
I don't think this is ending Liss, see my answer in the 59 thread you linked. If it is ending I think it would be on your terms looking at line 5 here.

I think you need to 'disperse the granaries' as I said there, show all you have, offer all you have (remember the 14.3) that is what Yi seems to be advising, and then see what happens.

This answer 49.1.5>62 looks like a big revolution happening in a very careful way. There's a lot going on here I think as if both of you are working hard and being careful (62) and somewhere along the line things change quite naturally (49.5)

With relationship questions I'd hesitate to speak of any definite outcomes, you know how it is with relationship readings they can turn around quickly or sometimes give very positive auspices but not necessarily for romance and so on. But here there is something special between you I think, something worth being careful over, but now maybe you've been careful enough and it's time for you to show your real feelings more. If this scares him off well then he isn't up to it but you are up to it. It's a challenge for both of you but there is potential for this relationship to transform into something more looking at line 5 here.

This isn't the cast of a 'complete ending' (change patterns 3 and 50) it's a cast of becoming. Even if you did end it somehow it looks very transformative. But I don't think it is time for a complete ending really.
 
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Oh dear ok...thankyou!! I didn't want to get my hopes up that the Transformation would be between us - of course I would love that. Thankyou and you're right there's is something special between us, more than just romance but I knew that from the moment I first saw him.....I've just no idea how to clarify exactly what it is.
Time will tell I guess.
 
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The radical change did take place in our relationship that caused it to totally end. The change also took place within myself although I'm still processing what happened here.
 

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Well it's early days. Early days for processing and also early days in terms what happens next. Obviously I really don't want to encourage false hope but equally I think it's maybe a bit too early to fully process the whole thing. Take care of yourself won't you.
 
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Do you know I've a feeling he'll return too Trojina - I'm definitely not discounting it....my process really is about the things I didn't see and how the puzzle of him/us panned out. At the moment I'm mainly focussing on a new business idea I have but my heart does feel a little heavy.....thankyou I'm doing my best to take care of myself. So many dimensions to our lives isn't there? I hope things are going well for you and your mum :)
 

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