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elizabeth said:Autumn, I'm still somewhat new to the inner/outer trigram ideas but I can follow your post in the rest of its terms. If you're right, releasing (something - perhaps childhood) precedes embracing (self worth, openness to others?
elizabeth said:To Jesed(I very much liked your synopsis of Autumn's release/embrace idea. What does it mean to release emotional possessiveness? Possessiveness of what, exactly? Is that possessiveness of the idea above (parental emotional isolation)?
elizabeth said:Is that it? I can say that with my heart and soul now, but believing it deep down (that I am worthy, that I will find a partner, that I am not condemned to repeat the mistakes of my parents) is another story! If any of you kind souls on this thread have recommendations as to how to full internalize that, I would love to hear them.
This was priceless. Such an amazing way of explain in 6 lines the root of the problem.Children respond to their worlds in an entirely intuitive way. When something is wrong in relationship to their parents, but they are unable to communicate with their parents because they don't have the verbal and cognitive skills to be able to do that, then intuitive, wordless understanding has to go underground, and their conscious way of being in the world has to be altered. When your conscious way of being in the world is altered, it’s just another way of saying that your boundaries are altered. When your boundaries are altered, your relationships with others are altered.
Thank you Trojina, I know it was an old post, but I felt like expressing what I felt reading it in any case.Autumn was last seen in 2007 so she may not see your message. If you click on a person's name you can see when they were last here.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).