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mercury said:It may be too much for me to take, that our earlier rapport and intensity is gone. I'm trying to figure out good questions to ask yi to explore that notion, what I expect, what she might be feeling, what is possible between us now, etc.
ok willowfox -- this is what's confusing me. Does this not contradict the original positive answer about making contact? (or is yi actually saying "no no no, not a letter or e-mail -- try a phonecall or smoke signals instead"?)
that in fact my motivations go beyond simply wanting to make "contact", my feelings are still too strong and that I'm still too conflicted to act with conviction.
does that mean that you want to make an unfaithful wife out of her? You say you are willing to sacrifice your happiness for your wife's well being but the truth is you wanna have it both ways. You can't have it both ways.
On the face of it it doesn't seem a feasible relationship - shes married, you are married, you have no reason to think shes unhappy and wants you back -
But is yi telling me that that's what would be best for my soul? This is my confusion.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).