...life can be translucent

Menu

It's me again asking for a follow-up

S

superstar

Guest
Hi Willowfox I haven't given up hope that me and my ex will somehow get back together.

I asked a couple of questions concerning my present separation. I know you predicted a return of somekind end of December and I trust in your answers but I want to get a clear picture of the energy between us at this point. I apologize for asking so many questions but now that I have my self esteem back my judgement is not as clouded. We still have no contact and I will never contact him again.

I asked:

What is N status quo? Is he romantically involved?
Hexagram 53 (unchanged)

Why is N a member and still looking on a dating site?
Hexagram 45 line 4 turns into Hexagram 8

Am I the kind of woman N is looking for please advise?
Hexagram 40 Lines 2 and 3 turns into Hexagram 62

Why did N block me and not want to talk to me again?
Hexagram 9 lines 1,2,3 and 6 turns into Hexagram 8

Will N take action to contact me?
Hexagram 21 line 6 turns into Hexagram 51

What are the chances that N will make an attempt to reconcile with me?
Hexagram 28 line 5 turns into Hexagram 32

Can I expect N to show an interest in me again?
Hexagram 15 (Does this mean in December as a month?)

Can I hope to hear from N again in the future and why?
Hexagram 17 lines 4 and 5 turns into Hexagram 24

Can I hope to be reunited with N again and why?
Hexagram 2 (unchanged)

Is N permanently finished with me and why?
Hexagram 50 lines 1 and 3 turns into Hexagram 38

Is my connection with N permanently finished?
Hexagram 33 line 6 turns into Hexagram 31 (asked twice to confirm)

Will N be mine one day?
Hexagram 53 lines 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 15

What can I expect to happen next between me and N?
Hexagram 26 line 3 turns into Hexagram 41

What does N feel for me at this point?
Hexagram 45 line 4 turns into Hexagram 8

Does N miss me?
Hexagram 19 (unchanged)

Should I continue to wait for N to return?
Hexagram 39 line 5 turns into Hexagram 15

Will N want to be with me again one day and why?
Hexagram 16 (unchanged)

What is the best course of action to win N back please advise?
Hexagram 38 lines 1 and 2 turns into Hexagram 35

Will N start to recognize my worth and appreciate me please explain?
Hexagram 63 lines 3 and 5 turns into Hexagram 24

Will N get the urge to be with me again?
Hexagram 58 lines 4, 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 41

Is N still attracted to me?
Hexagram 1 line 2 turns into Hexagram 13

What or who is holding N back from contacting me?
Hexagram 52 lines 3 and 6 turns into Hexagram 2 (Does this mean that his heart is not in it he doesn't desire me anymore?)

Is N turned off with me and why?
Hexagram 19 lines 1 and 6 turns into Hexagram 4

Give me an image of the kind of relationship I can hope to have with N if we reconnect?
Hexagram 64 line 5 turns into Hexagram 6

I always run to check my computer to see if you replied first thing when I wake up in the morning. I hope you reply to my long wish list. Blessings M:hug:
 

willowfox

Inactive
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
5,530
Reaction score
2
What is N status quo? Is he romantically involved? Hexagram 53 (unchanged)

It suggests that there is a woman in his life, perhaps not married but in close association.

Why is N a member and still looking on a dating site? Hexagram 45 line 4 > Hexagram 8

I would say yes.

Am I the kind of woman N is looking for please advise? Hexagram 40 Lines 2 and 3 > Hex 62

Not currently as he seems to be looking for someone more manageable, he setting his sights lower these days. you appear to have rocked his boat a lot.

Why did N block me and not want to talk to me again? Hexagram 9 lines 1,2,3, 6 > Hex 8

He retreated back into his shell after what you said to him, and now he feels the need to stay still as he is just not ready to speak with you again for the time being, and also he doesn't want to get into any debate or argument with you as you obviously upset him and he still feels hurt.

Will N take action to contact me? Hexagram 21 line 6 turns into Hexagram 51

It suggests yes.

What are the chances that N will make an attempt to reconcile with me? Hex 28, 5 Hex 32

Strange as line 28.5 suggests that there could be a budding attempt.

Can I expect N to show an interest in me again? Hexagram 15

Yes and Hex 15 does suggest December.

Can I hope to hear from N again in the future and why? Hex 17 lines 4 and 5 > Hexagram 24

Yes.

Can I hope to be reunited with N again and why? Hexagram 2 (unchanged)

You are going to have to wait and see how things develop between you in the future.

Is N permanently finished with me and why? Hexagram 50 lines 1 and 3 turns into Hex 38

No, but at the moment your points of view are so very different which of course is preventing him from contacting you and that needs to be sorted out.

Is my connection with N permanently finished? Hexagram 33 line 6 turns into Hexagram 31

For the moment is happy to back off and do his own thing but hex 31 suggests that the block is far from permanent.

Got to stop for now, tired. Coming soon, part two.
 
S

superstar

Guest
Hi Willowfox I read the thread about it being better to ask one question at a time and expand from that than ask a chain of similar questions.

OK here's the scoop on my situation. I've been doing many readings on my own but get confused. With your new reading the puzzle connected.

First reading you got he is married, now you saw him in a close relationship. I don't know what's going on in his life but I believe you. I think he is closely connected with a woman but for some reason is not ready to tie the knot because he feels that something is missing or is not right.

Why am I being so obsessive about this? In my twenties I saw in a dream the man I would marry and it was N. I know it sounds crazy but we have a tradition in the Greek Orthodox religion with the Boubounieres. White sugar coated almond candies which the priest blesses for the couple who in turn pass out to the bridesmaids and single women to put 3 under their pillow for 3 nights. Apparently on the third day you see the man you are destined to marry. I did it out of curiosity twenty years ago and saw on the third night someone who resembled N. The almost transparent light blue hypnotic eyes that N was the most striking feature and seemed to zoom in on me as if a higher power was trying to tell me if you forget how he looks remember those eyes. We were both actually quite shaken up when we first met and kept bringing it up trying to figure out why we felt the way we did. It was very strange like we were floating in a daze and mesmerized. It was so beautiful. Thinking about it makes me cry so I can't think about it.

The I Ching is telling me constantly to follow the signs, my premonitions and feelings. Even you mention how you find strange his return. I truly believe we are destined to be together. It hurts like hell but I don't regret ending it with him because I suspected he was with someone when he met me and I'm sure he has his reasons for looking for someone new. Which brings me to this point of trying to understand what is going on.

If you don't want to answer the other questions can you please please throw light on these ones. This is very important for me Willowfox because I've never married and I fear that I'll end up alone.

Will N be mine one day?
Hexagram 53 lines 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 15 (Does this mean I have to wait 3 years).

What does N feel for me at this point?
Hexagram 45 line 4 turns into Hexagram 8

Why is N on a dating site if he's involved with a woman?
Hexagram 54 lines 1 and 4 changes into Hexagram 29

Are me and N destined to be together and get married?
Hexagram 37 line 5 changes into Hexagram 22

Give me an image of the kind of relationship I can hope to have with N if we reconnect?
Hexagram 64 line 5 turns into Hexagram 6

I don't know how I can repay you for your time and effort. I can promise you to stay at my cottage situated across the beach for as long as you want if you ever decide to vacation in Greece.
 

willowfox

Inactive
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
5,530
Reaction score
2
Will N be mine one day? Hexagram 53 lines 5 and 6 turns into Hexagram 15

Line 53.5 says for a period of time, your relationship with N is going nowhere, then oneday this situation changes and the air is cleared between you. So oneday there will be balance in the relationship.

What does N feel for me at this point? Hexagram 45 line 4 turns into Hexagram 8

Both line and hex are about unity, so I suppose he feeling that he is missing out being with you.

Why is N on a dating site if he's involved with a woman? Hexagram 54 lines 1 and 4 > Hexagram 29

Perhaps he feels inadequate, or wants to play the field.

Are me and N destined to be together and get married? Hexagram 37 line 5 > Hexagram 22

This hex shows the husband and wife, and the line suggests that eventually he will be highly regarded by you and seems to indicate that you will be married.

Give me an image of the kind of relationship I can hope to have with N if we reconnect?
Hexagram 64 line 5 turns into Hexagram 6

This suggests a beautiful new beginning that will give rise to a better relationship than before.
 
S

superstar

Guest
Thank you!!!!

Thank you Willowfox for opening a window of light into my situation. I'll not bombard you with endless questions anymore. I'll let you know how things unfold when and if anything happens. Blessings:hug:
 
S

superstar

Guest
Hi Willowfox - something is up.

Hi Willowfox I want you to know what's up with me this month in the event you disappear. You had mentioned way back in July that in November something might happen with my estranged BF whose name is Neil BTW and that he might get the urge to contact me (Hexagram 2 kept coming up). If not November then by end December (Hexagram 24) .

Two things happened today that gave me a sign of things to come. A woman called my number asking for him by name - strange. He had my number in his blackberry where I would send him very intimate and personal text messages in the past when we were together - and I wonder if someone read them. Today he was checking out my new photos and updated profile on this private social club website we are both on and stayed online until I got off and then he got off.

I feel that's something's up and he's warming up to me. I asked some questions to get insights on the progress with my situation. I intend to hope for phone call/email/text until end December and if nothing happens then I'll let it go.

Something is up and I'm curious so I asked:

Does Neil want to be with me again?
Hexagram 11 line 3 changes into Hexagram 19

Will my estranged BF Neil make an effort to reconnect with me?
Hexagram 8 (unchanged)
(I know this means union but I get confused with the part of that poor guy Feng Fang whatshisname who comes too late and gets his head cut off. I'm wondering if it relates to Neil that he'll come to late and he'll find my door locked?)

Because I got confused with 8 unchanged I asked:
Will Neil make the first move to get together with me again?
Hexagram 8 line 1 changes into Hexagram 3

What should I do to have success in winning Neil back?
Hexagram 31 line 5 changes into Hexagram 62

Will the present estrangement and misunderstanding between me and Neil clear up?
Hexagram 40 line 2 changes into Hexagram 16

What are Neil's feelings for me at present?
Hexagram 4 line 3 turns into Hexagram 64

Will Neil want to pursue a relationship with me?
Hexagram 51 line 1 and line 6 changes into Hexagram 16

I hope I hear from you...Cheers M:hug:






Will my
 
S

superstar

Guest
It's unfortunate that Willowfox has been banned. Her's and Hilary's readings are the only reason I took this site seriously before deciding to sign up. They both have a totally different approach granted Hilary's are professional precise and academic by the book she goes really into depth and covers every aspect of the question and hidden aspects and analysis everything giving more than anticipated making you think and see things from a different perspective which is amazing. Willowfox on the other hand does amazing quick readings and gets to the juice of the matter like a fortune teller:) unbelievable!

As a publisher and editor I had to put in my 2 cents as I have been following up on readings daily.

I hope things get cleared up. In any event even though I prefer Willowfox and cannot afford Hilary at present (in the midst of a book and script) can someone else help me please? Thanks in advance...M
 
S

superstar

Guest
This forum should be a brainstorming session. Like at the academy in ancient Greece - a symposium -which means academic discussions based on a reading and not cat fights and insults if opinions differ. Everyone should respect and accept differing views on readings with an open mind.
 

lucia

visitor
Joined
May 28, 2008
Messages
465
Reaction score
1
Hi

This forum should be a brainstorming session. Like at the academy in ancient Greece - a symposium -which means academic discussions based on a reading and not cat fights and insults if opinions differ. Everyone should respect and accept differing views on readings with an open mind
OK where's your contribution to the brainstorming? Or at least to your own threads and hexes?

How do you see your reading?

Lucia
 
S

superstar

Guest
Hi Lucia good question I've never thought of contributing because I'm inexperienced still looking for help to decipher the hexagrams and don't want to write nonsense. I meant I like it when the senior members from what I have read so far do the brainstroming with question/situation and how it all comes together based on a specific hexagram. It's objective and non judgemental just giving the "cold or warm" facts and supporting the facts depending on the question.

You've given me food for thought thanks I'll take you up on it....this is all new to me and exciting I had never thought to go down this route...I'll try and figure out my own hexagrams and post it and wait for feedback.... Cheers M
 

Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom

Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).

Top