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Are you saying my intentions are not totally honest? To be fair, I've been wavering about whether this is worth the effort lately, but in the end I think it will be. I'm just not 100% now like I was a couple weeks ago.jesed said:Hi dickydoo
Just in case the comment could be useful
The answers you had receive (56.6; 38.6 and 58.6) doesn't look positive for your intentions.
Had you notice that in every answer, the changing line is line 6?
35 unchanging, Progressjesed said:Now, I would suggest you another aproach: make a "dialogue" with the Yi, following this questions in this order:
a) General Diagnosis of the relationship between X and I
19 unchanging, Approachjesed said:b) Qualification of my position within the relation
9.2,3,4 > 25 The Taming Power of the Small to Innocencejesed said:c) Qualification of X's position within the relation
50.3 > 64 The Caldron to Before Completion.jesed said:d) What is the best path for me to take related to this relationship?
trojan said:Am I missing something crucial because i can't see anymore ickyness here than any other realtionship question ?
trojan said:Why is it 'disconcerting' ? Disconcerting to who ?
Theres a funny double standard here cos theres a female who posted here whom I considered to be stalking a man and completely disregarding hs statements that he wanted nothing to do with her. I told her once I thought she should respect his wish to be left alone and she was very angry so i shut up. She went on and on pestering this man and got many supportive posts in return telling her it was all about her 'process' etc. All the time I was thinking to hell with her 'process' shes harassing the guy, but i kept quiet. BTW I can't remember who wrote the posts in return etc as it was a while ago - I really don't remember so I'm not taking a swipe at anyone - I guess they meant well anyway.
But here we have the opposite. A man asks about approaching a girl for a date and hes considered some kind of weirdo that can't take no for an answer. I don't think its fair on him at all.
trojan said:You are asking him if the girl is much younger, if he is in authority over her etc There is no reason to think this.
trojan said:Disconcerting to who?
trojan said:It just occurred to me I wonder if 'icky' means to me what it means to you and Autumn, might be one of those words with slightly different implications in different places. To me its 'sickening' , something unsavoury, yukky, yes ?
Yeah but Bruce there are many many desperate posters here seeking to hear what they want to hear in regard to their love. I'm always amazed how much time people give them as I wouldn't have the patience. Thats why I'm suprised this particular querant has had this response, to me he doesn't seem that desperate or 'icky'.
Hes only ever made a few posts here.
Ah well apologies Dicky I suppose we are talking over you.
cjgait said:You are not considering her, indeed she is so quiet you are not even seeing her. Have a look around and you will see her.
autumn said:If you are quite sure you are not a pervert lurking in the attic with binoculars (just kidding), then 19 and 35 unchanging become pretty simple. This is just a prospect that doesn't pan out for you. She will always be nice (9>25), but she's interested in you as a friend.
Oh well.
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