relationship: 20.1.4 > 25

[tealight]

I asked about a current friendship, and got 20.1.4 > 25.
Interestingly I got 20 a few months ago when I asked about the same relationship(but different question).
I did a search on the site for 20 > 25 but could not find anything for this particular combination, so I'm hoping someone could suggest an interpretation of what the 25 means in relation to 20..?

 

[pocossin]

Here are two threads that mention 20.1.4 > 25.

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=8161

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=13116

I think of 25 as harvest time -- which it is now in this part of the northern hemisphere -- and 20 as a caring watching over. So 25 in relation to 20 implies that the relationship will grow more substantial.

 

[chingching]

I think 25 is a good sign for a friendship, no entanglements. And as P said above 20 with its ritual and consideration is very caring.

line 1, take the relationship seriously.
line 4, to keep the friendship alive and un-entangled make sure there is some mutual ritutal that you do together as friends, to be more clear something like doing an activity together but within boundaries like going to the movies but afterwards you go off and do your own thing, maintaining a bit of freedom and space in order to nurture the friendship.

I'm flying a little blind on this though you didn't say much at all, I get the feeling from the reading that remaining free of obligations is central to this friendship.

 

[tealight]

Thank you both for these replies, really appreciated.
The question I asked was "What is his current feeling towards me and our friendship?"

This is a guy I have been in contact with for the past 5 months, online, he lives on the other side of the world. We email, but there is a game we both like that we play too, we play everyday. So chingching, this makes sense as this is the 'activity' you mention, and it's like sometimes if we don't talk for a few days we are still connected by this activity.

I have found myself developing feelings or something recently, because I just love his personality. Obviously this is irrational since we've never met, so how can I have feelings?! But also he is a very 'traditional' type of guy, so I think he has also maybe been privately wondering if it's possible to be just friends because he seems like the sort of guy who does not view girls as platonic friends, if that makes sense. But then I could just be imagining this, because there is definitely a good basic friendship there.

But, I feel good about this answer and your interpretations. It just makes perfect sense and I'm relieved. Because I don't want the friendship to end and would prefer it to be gradual and constant, but without any other stuff getting in the way. Because if this happens then I can't be relaxed.

chingching, what you say about line 1 also makes a lot of sense, I can't really explain it here, but it just confirms what I already know about our personalities. And it's always nice to get confirmation like this.