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43.1.2.3 - 8 Seems to say talking these things over could lead to a Breakthrough and then you will see for yourself what the chances for Union are.
ZHEN, determination or divination, is oracle-consulting, but also receiving an answer. And most important: to follow the advice of the gods.
Remedying is the inverse of the preceding gua, Following. According to the ancient sages’ experience, one following others amiably may tend to go along with evil streams and become degenerate. In that case, one should turn over a new leaf and make a fresh start
Mountain over Wind presents a picture that the yin gua is willing to follow, but the yang gua is standing still. Thus the yin gua cannot move forward. Moreover, the yielding lines of both gua are lying under solid lines, symbolizing yin elements restrained by yang elements and unable to do anything, just like the abandoned, unused containers where worms develop. This situation needs a remedy.
If Gu is “decay,” “poison,” “destruction,” or “corruption,” how can the gua deserve the most auspicious labels of prosperity and smoothness, and be favorable to cross great rivers? Confucius’s Commentary on the Decision says, “The world will be regulated in good order. It is favorable to cross great rivers. It is time to go forward and do something. . . . It indicates a new beginning follows every ending. This is the course of Heaven.”
I would take the 32 uc as very significant, and very hope-inspiring and positive in general. Just watch for the ups and downs; let things continue to progress in small steps, which are more enduring than big leaps, usually.It's been a while. We had another date yesterday. I'm still processing the events and emotions, since there are always so many of them in the relatively short time we have together. Here is one important thought I want to share right now.
Since January I scaled way back on "abusing" the Oracle, especially for "mind-reading" questions, and focused on understanding answers I already have. One new question I asked was "What will happen when we meet in March ?" Answer 18uc. "Work on what has been spoiled" or "Remedying". Some selected quotes from Huang about that gua.
In context of our relationship this could mean two things - some mistakes I've made on a previous date, and her childhood trauma due to bad parenting and everything that follows from that. As it often happens, reality is more complex than one single interpretation. It was a mix of both - I took care of apologising and fixing my mistakes, and she talked about her parents and childhood. Oh, and how much she talked. Despite saying she doesn't want serious connection or commitment she does everything to make our connection deeper and stronger. She went as far as saying "It feels like we know each other for a very long time"
It's not (yet) a turning point that I'm hoping for, but definitely a big step forward. It's probably the most significant development ever since she asked for a pause. I also asked "What is the most important thing I need to know about our recent date ?" Answer -32uc, "Long Lasting". Traditionally symbolises a union of old married couple
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